I've had similar feelings myself before. Their incredible beauty has made me feel unworthy. I'm reminded though of a story my dad told me from when he was in his youth. He told me that he was out on the town one night and there was an incredibly beautiful young woman on the dancefloor. He summed up the dutch courage to go talk to her, thinking "what do I have to lose." He was expecting that she must of been there with someone, only momentarily left alone in the crowd. Still, he approached her.
He took her home that night. She told him how hard it was for her to get guys, because many did not have the courage to talk to her, or just assumed she'd already be taken. She explained beauty as somewhat of a curse, her more average looking friends being more regularly picked up by men. She said normally the only men that could approach her were arrogant assholes as they were typically the only one's with the self confidence to talk to her.
Moral of the story, confidence is everything. Your mind has funny ways of discouraging you, but try and push through that. Things aren't always what they seem.
IIN attractive women make me feel negative about myself
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I've had similar feelings myself before. Their incredible beauty has made me feel unworthy. I'm reminded though of a story my dad told me from when he was in his youth. He told me that he was out on the town one night and there was an incredibly beautiful young woman on the dancefloor. He summed up the dutch courage to go talk to her, thinking "what do I have to lose." He was expecting that she must of been there with someone, only momentarily left alone in the crowd. Still, he approached her.
He took her home that night. She told him how hard it was for her to get guys, because many did not have the courage to talk to her, or just assumed she'd already be taken. She explained beauty as somewhat of a curse, her more average looking friends being more regularly picked up by men. She said normally the only men that could approach her were arrogant assholes as they were typically the only one's with the self confidence to talk to her.
Moral of the story, confidence is everything. Your mind has funny ways of discouraging you, but try and push through that. Things aren't always what they seem.
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Anime7
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I like that story, it had a good message.
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BLAh81
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So did I.