It is normal to be concerned for your friend's weight and to be angry that she does not take her health very seriously. Considering what you stated regarding her parents, she obviously was not raised in an environment in which health is an important issue.
I had a friend who is the same way. He is morbidly obese (about 5'5 and it over 300-350 lbs.) and no matter what I tried to say to him or anything of that nature, he just didn't seem to give a darn about his condition and his Mother didn't give a darn either as she was mentally ill.
At some point, though, I just accepted it as it is. He is going to have to come to a point in his life where he is going to have to either start caring for his health or suffer the consequences and you are going to have to accept this for yourself as well. You can do, as myboyfriendsbitch said and encourage her to live a healthier lifestyle by example, but ultimately the decision is up to her: have poor health and suffer or maintain herself.
All you can do is be a good support system and hope that she makes the right decision. I would lay off her if I were you. If she truly wants the help, she will have to seek it.
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It is normal to be concerned for your friend's weight and to be angry that she does not take her health very seriously. Considering what you stated regarding her parents, she obviously was not raised in an environment in which health is an important issue.
I had a friend who is the same way. He is morbidly obese (about 5'5 and it over 300-350 lbs.) and no matter what I tried to say to him or anything of that nature, he just didn't seem to give a darn about his condition and his Mother didn't give a darn either as she was mentally ill.
At some point, though, I just accepted it as it is. He is going to have to come to a point in his life where he is going to have to either start caring for his health or suffer the consequences and you are going to have to accept this for yourself as well. You can do, as myboyfriendsbitch said and encourage her to live a healthier lifestyle by example, but ultimately the decision is up to her: have poor health and suffer or maintain herself.
All you can do is be a good support system and hope that she makes the right decision. I would lay off her if I were you. If she truly wants the help, she will have to seek it.
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I just realised, that's my height, but over 3 times my weight wtf!