I said this on a similar post, in my experience, Anal sex can be: good, bad or ugly. It's a gamble. I'm sure most people try it at some point, so I guess that makes it normal.
I've had some really good experiences with previous girlfriends, and they've enjoyed themselves a lot, but then I've also had times when it's not been so good either due to it hurting the girl (which obviously isn't fun) or mess...
If you want to maximise the likelihood of a good experience: Lots of lube, be relaxed (preferably without alcohol) and have plenty of foreplay, involve anal stimulation in the foreplay, make sure the bum in question is clean - the best thing is an enema (home-made) during a shower (it sounds a bit gross but it's worth it), make sure you're both enthusiastic about doing it, go slow (at least at first), have wipes on hand and add lube during to maintain comfort.
It can take a bit of getting used to, and some people never do, but if you're still interested in it despite a less-than-brilliant first try, why not? The 2nd time or 3rd time down the line could be great.
Is it normal: Anal Sex
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I said this on a similar post, in my experience, Anal sex can be: good, bad or ugly. It's a gamble. I'm sure most people try it at some point, so I guess that makes it normal.
I've had some really good experiences with previous girlfriends, and they've enjoyed themselves a lot, but then I've also had times when it's not been so good either due to it hurting the girl (which obviously isn't fun) or mess...
If you want to maximise the likelihood of a good experience: Lots of lube, be relaxed (preferably without alcohol) and have plenty of foreplay, involve anal stimulation in the foreplay, make sure the bum in question is clean - the best thing is an enema (home-made) during a shower (it sounds a bit gross but it's worth it), make sure you're both enthusiastic about doing it, go slow (at least at first), have wipes on hand and add lube during to maintain comfort.
It can take a bit of getting used to, and some people never do, but if you're still interested in it despite a less-than-brilliant first try, why not? The 2nd time or 3rd time down the line could be great.