You know what? You're making all these excuses and denigrating yourself, but you have still ultimately decided that it's totally okay for you to be plain while still deserving a "trophy" girlfriend. That's an ugly way to think no matter what you look like. It's like you've bought into the movies in which incredibly hot women fling themselves at Adam Sandler's latest banal man-child incarnation or hang all over Woody Allen. You seem to feel entitled to a pretty girlfriend, not just someone who matches your own cuteness quotient.
In real life, it doesn't work that way; you have to have something of value to offer -- and no, I don't mean money (although if a sad old fart like Hugh Hefner wants to spend his millions to buy a plastic blonde, I guess he can do that).
So you aren't attracted to the hapless plain girl who actually likes you for whatever reason. That's legitimate; we don't get to pick who turns us on. If she could choose, she probably wouldn't have picked you.
We've all had that happen. The only considerate thing to do is end it; otherwise you're just using the other person for convenient sex or an ego boost. It's not healthy for either party to stay in a relationship in which one person just isn't feeling it.
Where you fail, though, is in thinking a woman has to accept your gross hairy troll-knuckles, ear wax, spare tire, tiny dick or whatever other physical shortcomings you might have. Um...why should she, especially as you don't seem particularly intelligent, confident, charming or kind to make up for looking like a lump of pork belly in a fedora? A hot woman who wants a hot man is shallow, but she's actually less shallow than you because she just wants someone on her level; you want to use another thinking, feeling human being as your god damned *accessory.*
You're completely right; you are a pig. You have two choices to un-porkify yourself: Improve your value on the dating market somehow, or learn to be a decent fucking human being who sees women as people, not trophies.
You are right. Everything you wrote has gone through my head in some shape or form.
My view of women probably is fucked by the media but if I'm to fix it, I have to acknowledge the truth and the truth isn't always going to be pure and nice.
My post is disgusting but it's the truth. I tried writing something that wouldn't incite anger and disgust but knew that no matter what someone would call me a bastard.
I deserve every word you have thrown at me but next time you find yourself making similar comments towards another poster realise they are human like you and me and will have their flaws.
Is it normal an ugly guy like me wants a beautiful girlfriend?
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You know what? You're making all these excuses and denigrating yourself, but you have still ultimately decided that it's totally okay for you to be plain while still deserving a "trophy" girlfriend. That's an ugly way to think no matter what you look like. It's like you've bought into the movies in which incredibly hot women fling themselves at Adam Sandler's latest banal man-child incarnation or hang all over Woody Allen. You seem to feel entitled to a pretty girlfriend, not just someone who matches your own cuteness quotient.
In real life, it doesn't work that way; you have to have something of value to offer -- and no, I don't mean money (although if a sad old fart like Hugh Hefner wants to spend his millions to buy a plastic blonde, I guess he can do that).
So you aren't attracted to the hapless plain girl who actually likes you for whatever reason. That's legitimate; we don't get to pick who turns us on. If she could choose, she probably wouldn't have picked you.
We've all had that happen. The only considerate thing to do is end it; otherwise you're just using the other person for convenient sex or an ego boost. It's not healthy for either party to stay in a relationship in which one person just isn't feeling it.
Where you fail, though, is in thinking a woman has to accept your gross hairy troll-knuckles, ear wax, spare tire, tiny dick or whatever other physical shortcomings you might have. Um...why should she, especially as you don't seem particularly intelligent, confident, charming or kind to make up for looking like a lump of pork belly in a fedora? A hot woman who wants a hot man is shallow, but she's actually less shallow than you because she just wants someone on her level; you want to use another thinking, feeling human being as your god damned *accessory.*
You're completely right; you are a pig. You have two choices to un-porkify yourself: Improve your value on the dating market somehow, or learn to be a decent fucking human being who sees women as people, not trophies.
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I wish I could favourite your comment specifically instead of the whole post, it's brilliant.
*stands up and applauds*
You mad?
This amount of writing deserves a response.
You are right. Everything you wrote has gone through my head in some shape or form.
My view of women probably is fucked by the media but if I'm to fix it, I have to acknowledge the truth and the truth isn't always going to be pure and nice.
My post is disgusting but it's the truth. I tried writing something that wouldn't incite anger and disgust but knew that no matter what someone would call me a bastard.
I deserve every word you have thrown at me but next time you find yourself making similar comments towards another poster realise they are human like you and me and will have their flaws.