shitttt, girl, 98% of the time that's just the beginning of it. There is likely a lot of crap you didn't find out about. The stuff he wouldn't be so careless to leave in his FB inbox.. But maybe not. I've been there done that. My boyfriend lost all trust. In our relationship (now it's this way) privacy is a privilege-- NOT A RIGHT. He has NO privacy whatsoever, but that's what he chose. A peek at his FB? I'd demand a "peek" at everything... email, messengers, phone, etc. Just don't make a habit of it if you do find nothing. If he is truly sorry and regrets what he did yada yada yada... he would be more than happy to let you see. That is... if he's truly got nothing to hide.
Instead of an Insurance Policy, look at it as more of a Reassurance Policy.
Is it normal after this to question your whole relationship?
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shitttt, girl, 98% of the time that's just the beginning of it. There is likely a lot of crap you didn't find out about. The stuff he wouldn't be so careless to leave in his FB inbox.. But maybe not. I've been there done that. My boyfriend lost all trust. In our relationship (now it's this way) privacy is a privilege-- NOT A RIGHT. He has NO privacy whatsoever, but that's what he chose. A peek at his FB? I'd demand a "peek" at everything... email, messengers, phone, etc. Just don't make a habit of it if you do find nothing. If he is truly sorry and regrets what he did yada yada yada... he would be more than happy to let you see. That is... if he's truly got nothing to hide.
Instead of an Insurance Policy, look at it as more of a Reassurance Policy.