It's the four months threshold here you need to consider properly. Has there been no no potential infidelity after this period? And how serious were you two after four months?
Additionally: how trustworthy do you feel the relationship is right now? Why did did you succumb to the temptation to look at his FB stuff from back then?
You obviously need to discuss this whole issue properly: your feelings for one another, your looking at his FB history, and so on. Just (what sounds like) a fairly dismissive lunchtime conversation needs exploring fully if the relationship is to be conducted long term.
If you do truly love one another this is something which needs to be dealt with.
Is it normal after this to question your whole relationship?
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It's the four months threshold here you need to consider properly. Has there been no no potential infidelity after this period? And how serious were you two after four months?
Additionally: how trustworthy do you feel the relationship is right now? Why did did you succumb to the temptation to look at his FB stuff from back then?
You obviously need to discuss this whole issue properly: your feelings for one another, your looking at his FB history, and so on. Just (what sounds like) a fairly dismissive lunchtime conversation needs exploring fully if the relationship is to be conducted long term.
If you do truly love one another this is something which needs to be dealt with.
I wish you well.