Is it normal.. to plan your break up

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I have and had planned my break up with my ex, she treated me bad just for example I worked a 12 hour day and did the running around after I did some food shopping and cooked dinner, the time of the day is now 9 30pm and about to head to bed after doing the dishes when my ex yelled at me for not putting a idea cube cabinet together and didn't stop yelling I had work at 5am the next day I have a mortgage with her at this stage and wanted to buy and then move on.. I put the cabinet together to shut her up. Then she yelled at me again for not been a man.... so I set up a 5 year plan and planned to break and buying her out during the down time where housing was cheap. This is only one of the story's of my life with the ex I might add as well she turned my friends to hate me so I just turned my back and walked away I don't have anger towards her cause deep down I know I'm a better person.

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  • Andrew256
    11 years ago | pl

    Normal? No. Smart? Yes. I commend you.

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago | pl

    Wow, good job dude. You did the right thing, and you are a very true person for not harboring hate for her even though it sounds like she really deserved it.

    My older sister planned her break up, I think it is a smart thing to do.

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  • sexystar
    10 years ago | pl

    Lol yah tell me mAson. I like what u did just walk past her and smile that just means your free and thank god for what u saw. Someone just just gave u a good excuse to dump her ass.

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  • Mason556
    11 years ago | pl

    Tell her to fuck off bitch I don't need this fucking crap go to hell

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  • Trueno
    11 years ago | pl

    I am very lucky, that had never happened I also have seen a couple stay together only for the child is sad to see.

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  • Purinsu
    11 years ago | pl

    Leave

    Everyone that stayd got stuck with a baby and problems because of the baby wich can give the blame at the dad

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  • Mason334
    11 years ago | pl

    Do here maybe she'll fell better after if you don't want to deal with that crap at the time no wait a baby with the best abort abort abort

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  • FocoUS
    11 years ago | pl

    Wait 5 years. Dude don't put up with that for 5 more years.

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    • Trueno
      11 years ago | pl

      I can come up with a 5 year plan what my goals are and holidays I have the house in my name and have moved on and very happy now doing a contiki tour on my own in China with 20Ty other singles I have had put up with her for far to long

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago | pl

    Put her in the cabinet!

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  • sexystar
    11 years ago | pl

    Be a man And stand up for yourself dump her ass! Don't let her boss you around. She can yell all she wants ignore her

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    • Trueno
      11 years ago | pl

      I had stood up for myself on countless times she was the type to say a blue pen was red and would not back down, if I dumped her ass she would just yell at me non stop so I had came up with a plan. Besides that a week later I saw her with a guy holding hands so what I did was right and just smiled as we pasted each other. She kept texting me after abusive msgs mainly I'm lucky I never had a child with her.

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