Is it normal - to have these desires?

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  • Let me ask you this; who can control what, to put bluntly, 'turns their key'? If it were as easy a task, as you seem to believe, wouldn't everyone?

    As for the definition of spinner; I assumed you to have a knowledge of german, due to your use of 'verboten'.

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    • I am not a German speaker, "verboten" is pretty common knowledge. I am assuming from the context that spinner is probably some sort of pendejo (more common knowledge)?

      I would love to visit Germany, mostly to try and top 350k/h legally on the road!!!

      The one thing I would never do while visiting Germany is bring up anything to do with nazis. Besides being very rude, such a thing would tap into a terrible and guilty past, and the current residents have nothing to do with that.

      Back to your question to me. If you acknowledge that you are pre-programmed and have no control of your sexual proclivities, why make a big thing of it?

      From what I've garnered, your problem is that you have a hard time reconciling the terrible deeds of the nazis with your own guilty pleasure derived from acting out these fantasies. (that and you're also guilty of having no sense of humor further perpetuating that German stereotype, but I digress)

      Coming here to ask the public if that's normal is highly abnormal. Maybe you should reach out to the nazi-based BDSM community if there is such a thing. If there is, I probably won't be attending the meetings.

      As you have stated this act "turns your key", and you are performing your fantasies behind closed doors among consenting adults and not bothering anyone else. So get on with it already.

      In case you're wondering, I have reserved judgement and have not voted on your poll yet. I'm leaning towards abnormal, but so are lots of things. I don't put chocolate sauce on my pizza, but that doesn't make it wrong or right, just a matter of taste. Someone out there does, this does not make them a bad person.

      ...And get a sense of humor already.

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      • Sorry, but I've no idea of the word pendejo, but spinner is a common slang meaning 'nut' or 'wacko'.
        If you've never been to germany, it is a must to visit. I've traveled extensively, and nothing compares (perhaps a bit biased)
        Contrary to belief, there are speed regulations on many sections of the autobahn.
        I can agree with your assessment, regarding the guilt factor, thus a partial reason of my questioning. However, I've been applauded on my sense of humour, although can, at times, be a bit dry.
        I'm unaware of any nazi bdsm group, especially where I currently reside :) would be splendid if there were. *lewd thought*
        In any case, been a pleasure.
        Tschuess - goodbye :)

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        • Pendejo is Spanish. Literally for a donkey, but leaning more towards jackass. Thus a boorish stubborn stupid individual. (that's me!!!) I guess spinner is more along the lines of loco, so I was wrong.

          I travel for a living. I have no control over where I go, and many places are just awful to visit (Pakistan stands out in my mind), but it also gives a perspective on the world that a tourist will never see. On the other hand I celebrated last new year in Buenos Aires, and that was fantastic....and no I didn't spot any nazis there.

          If you live in Germany, you should probably keep your situation you described to yourself. I'm sure it wouldn't be well recieved there.

          I'm aware about the speed restrictions on the autobahn, but those have never stopped me anywhere else in the past!!!

          I'm glad you've someone to act out your fantasies with in a safe manner. I'm also glad you can deal with my wiseass comments. Maybe you do have a sense of humor after all...

          Auf Wiedersehen

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          • Ahh okay! I need to recite until I remember - broaden my foreign language skills.

            Some of my most memorable travels have been 'off the beaten trail', never to pakistan though - the 'vices guide to travel' advised against. Buenos Aires, however is on my list of hopefuls.

            Currently, I live in the states, so not an issue - not that we parade around the house goose-stepping and all, now that would be embarrassing! And when we visit my family in germany, we leave all our paraphernalia safely at home!

            I've always relished a good debate - keeps the mind sharp and your 'wise-assed' comments made for a delightful challenge as well as provided for an insight into my wanton-filled psyche.

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