Is it normal.. that i cant bring my self to give head

me and my boyfriend have been together a year and he absolutely loves going down on me [so he says] but when it comes to returning the favour.. i just can't bring myself to do it! i've done it loads of times and once i start doing it i'm fine.. its just getting started! my boyfriend says it doesnt bother him but it deffinately bothers me!! helpp :(

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  • He should dump you...although when you say you've done it "lots of times" you sound like a total WHORE...no wonder he keeps you around

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  • I remember feeling this way too when I was in my late teens. id say get a bottle of wine and start dancing to some of your favorite sexy music together, and just start touching or playing with it little by little, and, I dunno, it will get a lot easier when ur older anyway, but try that anyway.

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  • I didn't like oral sex either, but once my boyfriend starting going down on me I tried it... Lol it tasted nasty but I like to drink juice or eat candy before hand. Also you might have a hard time because you feel awkward.. I felt like that to heck still do sometimes just make sure ur really aroused and feeling the mood before going down that helps and it take your mind off what you are doing and you tend to focus more on pleasure... Hope this helps.

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  • GOOD COMMENT^^^^^JUST EASE INTO IT. WORK YOUR WAY DOWN SLOWLY. HE'LL LOVE IT AND IT WON'T BE ALL-OF-A-SUDDEN TO YOU.

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  • start by kissing his tummy. you dont need to be super sexy, just be silly. hell just be happy once you get going, so it wont be awkward or anything.

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  • I think it is fine not to give oral sex if both partners are OK with it, or being one sided. You should try 69!

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  • your probably just nervous

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