Is it normal 2 secretly get turned on when a chick calls a guy fat?

Hello Folks:

First of all, I am a somewhat fat man who weighs almost 250 pounds. It's only a few times throughout my life that I have been teased by various people - including a few females - about my weight. Even though I first get humiliated when a woman criticizes me about my weight, it ususually does not take too long when I start blushing about her teasing. A few times, I have been secretly getting turned on (even though I try not to show it) when a chick calls me fat. A classic instance of this was when I was in gym class decades ago, I was standing in line waiting for the teacher to give me some kind of physical. Well, this chick behind me that I have been talking to for a while all of a sudden wrapped her arms around my waist (and underbelly) and picked me up without warning in front of ALL of those other students. She later put me back down and said, "Wow, you are really getting fat!" I didn't know whether to feel ashamed or happy. I just covered up my face so no one could see me smile. Like in the media, there is that comedy sitcom called KING OF QUEENS (?), which features that big guy married to that fine chick. I heard that she teases him a lot about his weight. Is this true? Does anyone even watch this show on a regular basis? Also, I know that a well-known but now-defunct talk show had a feature episode about women who were in love with pot-bellied men. One of these young women actually KISSED her boyfriend's belly button right in front of the crowd and the rest of us viewers. (????) Does anyone else know of any good examples of fit (and often attractive) women teasing fat/overweight men about their pot bellies? If anyone has anything to say about this really taboo and sensitive subject, then please let me know something. Thank you.

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