Is it normal 18 and 36

Hell no. He was 18 when you were born. You're a young piece of ass that he can easily afford or please. Either that or you're both just ugly and you can't do any better than him. And he lacks the ability to snag an attractive "mature" woman. You're both just losers.

Fuck all the responders who can't seem to mind their own business. Of course, if he's abusive, or is just using you for his own ego, then of course your better off without him. However, if he's genuinely a nice person, and being with him makes you happy, then neither of you should be subject to such judgement.

I always want older men to I'm 17 and I like a man who's 41 years old and I would love to be is gf it's normal I see nothing wrong with liking a man twice your age, younger guys are such jerks

You're both of legal age. Go for it and don't let anyone stop you.

Well, you guys are two consenting adults so I don't see anything wrong with. There's a guy whose parent are 29 years apart. His mother was, I think 31 and his father was 60. And they were married too.

You girls are getting played so bad by these older guys.. It's sick. And all the stupid comments saying 'it's normal' and 'you're an adult do what you want' are from other young immature girls who are trying to justify doing the same thing themselves. Also dating an older guy by no means makes you look cool or more mature, it makes you look gross, and all the guys your age are disgusted by it.. Date your age sweetheart..

If your dad objects, always, ALWAYS be very careful. He knows a little more than you do about life and relationships.

Dad is most likely primarily interested in your well being. A 36 year old dating a child is not.

What makes you think that you are more than a young piece of tail to this pervert?

No that's not normal but it seems that Relationships with huge age differences are becoming more common now days. I'm not a fan but whatever makes you happy. Having kids would be weird though he'd be way old when they were in highschool... Plus I find it gross that he could be the age of your father. He should. Not be attracted to someone that young

Not normal, but who are we to say who you can and can't love?

Enjoy your youth.. I wish I could be 18 again. Don't get too emotionally attached to this relationship.. Because it will weigh your down. Just take things slow and as they come.

Age is just a number. You are an adult and have the right to love who you choose. I say follow your heart!

Go for it

My boyfriend is 12 years older than me and I love him with all my heart.

I have always dated older guys...but at 18 I don't think it's appropriate to you to get into a too serious relationship yet...to each their own, but I like most adults are completly different people now than at 18... Shoot I'm 29 and a complete deifferent person than when I was 26...my advice is live your youth and enjoy getting to know yourself..if it's any consilation I am in a wonderful loving relationship with my boyfriend who is 41...

Hey I'm trying to get with a 23 year old married man. But he is divorcing his wife.I'm 18 but my mom wouldn't approve.

It's not exactly normal but that doesn't mean it's bad. If you two are happy together, you two should be ok. If differences (other than age, obviously) are an issue, just keep communication wide open. You were both raised in a completely different generation so your views and opinions and believes will definately be very different. And just because you're together now, doesn't mean that you have to get married. You're only 18. So maybe just wait a couple years. That'll give both of you a chance to understand each other better and for you to think more on how to ease your parents into it. If they love you, which I'm sure they do, they'll learn to except who you love, no matter who it is or how old they are. Good luck!

age is just a number, do whatever makes you happu hun(:

I guess it's normal for you to want an older man....buuuut he's a pervert!! 6 years ago he was still a grown ass 30 year old man and you were a 12 year old little girl. So yeah I hope he feels real cool using you to fill his pedifile needs

That's just disgusting