Is it normal.......

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So, i just want to know.. is it normal for men to ignore you? I mean i do everything for my husband..i cook,clean,i want baby but he tell me he don't,please him sexually and im looking smart but not a very beautiful girl.Why wouldnt he pay attention to me? I hardly even put in time to me because im so busy trying to keep up on making HIM happy! Am i doing something wrong? Okay, so he wakes up,gets ready for work..from 10 to about 8,9 he works and then comes home and doesnt want to do anything but watch tv..it makes me so mad that i sit at home all day and do everything in my power to please him but when i want to spend time im like pushed to the side because he's "tired". What about how i feel? I understand that he worked and wants to relax but its a everyday thing..he just likes watching movies ALL THE TIME and im bored out of my mind always doing the same thing over and over! What can i do to get his attention?? I feel like im not good enough ;[ and it hurts to give everything and hardly be noticed for it. I really need help because i dont understand.

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  • lilaithe
    12 years ago

    Ooops I clicked yes while scrolling down but I really meant hell NO. Ditch that selfish loser.

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  • kisskiss
    12 years ago

    Get a new man

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  • eternalsmoke31
    13 years ago

    Its sounds like you should focus more on pleasing yourself than him...If he works all day and wants to unwind on the couch so be it...But make sure that if your unhappy he KNOWS becuz subtle hints and saying "oh nothing, Im fine" will end with the same results everytime...

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  • TomasBodin
    14 years ago

    -.-, why some guys have to be like this??( im a guy btw)

    i fkg hate that but, like you heard, just leave him, there ARE other guys who are way much better than idiots like him -.-, just need to know where to look.

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  • ven067
    14 years ago

    I hate hearing about these emotionless robotic marriages on this site. Well not hate but sympathetic I suppose.
    You can see a marriage counselor OR (my personal advice) leave him. Just leave, just say your tired of pleasing him and getting nothing in return. Leave, stay with a friend for a few days. If he doesnt crawl back to you and promise to make your marriage more exciting then call for a divorce.
    If you did that much for him and he still didnt give you any recognition for it then i'm sure there are plenty of guys out there who will.

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  • Brooser
    14 years ago

    From the sound of it, he may have fallen out of love with you. You sound like a very caring, thoughtful person, and deserve to find a better partner in life.

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  • hotchickie81
    14 years ago

    Wow, sounds like a friend of mine... (similar situation)

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  • PiAnt
    14 years ago

    You seem like a very caring and giving partner; maybe he has become complacent over time.

    Have you spoken with him about this? You really need to communicate your feelings to him so you can overcome any issues together.

    Hopefully he will also be aware of the problem too; not that it means he will want to discuss it of course, but, as you know, you can't continue this way for much longer.

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