It sounds like she needs to eat more fibre and drink more fluids.
She also needs to consider the fact that straining during bowel movements can cause hemorrhoids. Speaking from personal experience, I can tell you that those are extremely uncomfortable.
Urethral sounding is a pretty well-known minority kink, but it has risks, especially if you're using improvised sounds. Inserting an unsterile object into her bladder is a very good way to give her a bladder infection. If she's ever had one of those, she'll probably know that they aren't very erotic (although I suppose it's possible she's into that sort of discomfort as well). That risk isn't as great for you, since the male urethra is much longer than those in women. But I have read real-life horror stories of men damaging their urethra to such a degree that they require surgery on a part of their anatomy that most guys don't want a scalpel getting anywhere near. But what do I know? Maybe that thought turns you on.
What you two are doing does nothing for me, although I do understand the erotic power of violating taboos and being open about something that the social norms say should always be very private.
As far as I'm concerned, as long as what you're doing is consensual, you're not deliberately damaging your own or each other's bodies, and you're not causing problems for other people, you two should feel free to do whatever the hell pushes your buttons.
Is it mormal to like helping a lady to shit and piss
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It sounds like she needs to eat more fibre and drink more fluids.
She also needs to consider the fact that straining during bowel movements can cause hemorrhoids. Speaking from personal experience, I can tell you that those are extremely uncomfortable.
Urethral sounding is a pretty well-known minority kink, but it has risks, especially if you're using improvised sounds. Inserting an unsterile object into her bladder is a very good way to give her a bladder infection. If she's ever had one of those, she'll probably know that they aren't very erotic (although I suppose it's possible she's into that sort of discomfort as well). That risk isn't as great for you, since the male urethra is much longer than those in women. But I have read real-life horror stories of men damaging their urethra to such a degree that they require surgery on a part of their anatomy that most guys don't want a scalpel getting anywhere near. But what do I know? Maybe that thought turns you on.
What you two are doing does nothing for me, although I do understand the erotic power of violating taboos and being open about something that the social norms say should always be very private.
As far as I'm concerned, as long as what you're doing is consensual, you're not deliberately damaging your own or each other's bodies, and you're not causing problems for other people, you two should feel free to do whatever the hell pushes your buttons.