Is it me, or something more?

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Okay, so when me n my boyfriend first got together i made him wait a month to have sex with me. He was so excited when i finally had sex with him...After that he wanted to have sex allllll the time. Now that we are living together and see each other everynight he never wants to have sex anymore, even if i initiate it. He's not cheating, and nothing in our relationship has changed except that we never have sex. Its making me feel like i dont please him. Idk what to do. Ive tried talking to him about it, but he just says that hes tired. Tired from what!? He doesnt work and all he does is smoke weed and drink, so what the hell is he so tired from that he cant have sex with me?

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  • mysti446
    13 years ago | pl

    So this begs the question... If all he does is smoke weed and drink why are you even there?? Seems to me sex would be the least of concerns. I would tell him step up to the plate, get a job, and stop the crap.. Then and only then address the sex issue.

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  • smileytom
    13 years ago

    Smoking weed is all good occasionally but regular use for some people greatly reduces motivation (for anything) including sex drive. Get him to cut down on the weed abit and u may find sexy times arn't far away! Otherwise maybe u should be getting it somewhere else!

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  • Thereisnogod
    12 years ago

    I just think you should fuck me instead.

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  • MichaelCollins
    13 years ago

    Its all the weed and Alcohol. I agree with many of the others though. If I were You I would get out of that relationship what is it your holding onto there. It cant be the nonexistiant sex. It is Possible he could be getting it from some where else though the fact that he smokes and drinks all the time is more than likly the main contributing factor.

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  • mişah
    13 years ago

    It's hard for a guy to get it up if he's drunk. btw, whose money is he using to buy weed and alcohol?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      ready for this? his mom's money. and he's 22

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  • Lockets
    13 years ago

    He is probably too tired after smoking weed and drinking a lot.

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    Weed makes you want to HAVE sex not get away from it. Damn I remember when I was a kid, I was soooo horny when I was high

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  • Kray
    12 years ago

    He is on two depressants, both effecting how he thinks and feels. He either needs a lot of help to get through the funk, or you need to let him go so he can sort his life out.

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  • ukegirl555
    13 years ago

    Yeah, it could be the weed. It has that power of taking away sex drive.

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  • stikyfangers
    13 years ago

    How do you know he isn't cheating? Yet, weed will do that. Take away all other interests. Then, he could be bi-curious.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      13 years ago

      well he's not cheating because he has no car, his phone is in my name and i check the statements on the bill, and calls me numerous times throughout the night while he is out, so im not really worried about him cheating, and if he is then i will find out soon enough and then its a wrap for him.

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  • tripledots
    13 years ago

    Cheat on him! .
    Million bucks says plenty more willing to pick up his slack. I know I would. :)

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  • amberallaround
    13 years ago

    welll darling, truth is he is either bored or getting it from someone else, plus he is smoking weed all the time really kills on the testoterone juice.
    and you know how much it cost to get a prepaid phone? 10 dollars a month thats it, and oviously he has some connections threw this whole weed thing? hate to tell you but he really is probly getting it from someone else, cause he is a guy and guys HAVE to have sex sometimes or it can kinda hurt a bit.

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