I really do think it's possible to train your sexual tastes. Maybe kissing a guy seems disgusting to you now. It might not always, if you were to let your mind wander places it hasn't been before.
Things like BDSM (for example) seem disgusting to a lot of people before they get into them.Disgust and arousal aren't such odd bedfellows. I read a study or an article with a title that went something like that, once.
We can be aroused by what feels transgressive or novel, or not our 'normal', and we can get to like it - and even depend on it - by associating that thing with a dopamine reward and making it a habit.
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I went from that to wanting more.
I really do think it's possible to train your sexual tastes. Maybe kissing a guy seems disgusting to you now. It might not always, if you were to let your mind wander places it hasn't been before.
Things like BDSM (for example) seem disgusting to a lot of people before they get into them.Disgust and arousal aren't such odd bedfellows. I read a study or an article with a title that went something like that, once.
We can be aroused by what feels transgressive or novel, or not our 'normal', and we can get to like it - and even depend on it - by associating that thing with a dopamine reward and making it a habit.