My mum expected of me the same but I don't want to and she knows that. Shes so petty she disowned of me for it. I think she really only had me because she wanted me to return the favor some day. I speak angrily of this because after much counseling I'm honest when I say this: she was abusive of me for years. To refuse should be my own choice. That person who called you weak for it, they shouldn't have felt right in saying so because everyone's situation is different. To call OP "weak" must be to call me weak and I don't sit well with that - why? Because I happen to think I'm a pretty STRONG person actually to have been able to put up with my mum's shit for so long to have been manipulated and mind fucked with everyday, I was still pretty STRONG in making that and sticking to my decision
Is it fine that I don't want to care for my parents when they're old?
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My mum expected of me the same but I don't want to and she knows that. Shes so petty she disowned of me for it. I think she really only had me because she wanted me to return the favor some day. I speak angrily of this because after much counseling I'm honest when I say this: she was abusive of me for years. To refuse should be my own choice. That person who called you weak for it, they shouldn't have felt right in saying so because everyone's situation is different. To call OP "weak" must be to call me weak and I don't sit well with that - why? Because I happen to think I'm a pretty STRONG person actually to have been able to put up with my mum's shit for so long to have been manipulated and mind fucked with everyday, I was still pretty STRONG in making that and sticking to my decision