Sure he'll have to deal with racism here and there, along with learning how to handle racism properly, but other than that he should be fine if he just be himself, stay in school, and avoid becoming a stereotype.
As for attraction, I can't speak for all women, but my main reason for not dating black men for a while was due to that hood mentality. The sagging, glorifying drug dealers, gangs, and shit; the guys I met made it seem like because they're black this is what they must do. It drove me crazy. Ironically, I end up falling in love with a black guy who is his own person, smart, and more.
Why are you trying so hard to start a debate with me? You're weird as fuck, but you're not stupid, so I'm sure you know what the topic of this thread is mainly about.
I've read the OP and he asked a question and it appeared to me you were speaking in a manner of condescension regarding him as the potentially stereotypical blackness and how your whiteness is superior and if said Whiteness is desired and to be achieved he cannot be himself around you.
That's what I'm trying to clearup sweetheart... Are you saying you want him to be an Uncle Tom?
is it fine that i am black?
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He's fine.
Sure he'll have to deal with racism here and there, along with learning how to handle racism properly, but other than that he should be fine if he just be himself, stay in school, and avoid becoming a stereotype.
As for attraction, I can't speak for all women, but my main reason for not dating black men for a while was due to that hood mentality. The sagging, glorifying drug dealers, gangs, and shit; the guys I met made it seem like because they're black this is what they must do. It drove me crazy. Ironically, I end up falling in love with a black guy who is his own person, smart, and more.
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What about white people do they deal with racism and why should blacks avoid becoming a stereotype? Shouldn't everyone be themselves and who they are?
It just sounds like what your saying about blacks is kind of condescending that's why I ask.
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Why are you trying so hard to start a debate with me? You're weird as fuck, but you're not stupid, so I'm sure you know what the topic of this thread is mainly about.
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I've read the OP and he asked a question and it appeared to me you were speaking in a manner of condescension regarding him as the potentially stereotypical blackness and how your whiteness is superior and if said Whiteness is desired and to be achieved he cannot be himself around you.
That's what I'm trying to clearup sweetheart... Are you saying you want him to be an Uncle Tom?