Is it fine for you to have a bastard kid?
Is it fine for you to have a bastard kid? E.g. you live with your GF and get a kid without marriage, would this annoy you or it's fine?
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Is it fine for you to have a bastard kid? E.g. you live with your GF and get a kid without marriage, would this annoy you or it's fine?
Do you realise we live in the 21st century?
I have no problem with marriage per se, but some people see is it as outmoded & nothing more than a piece of paper. Pregnant couples were/are coerced into shotgun weddings which seldom last. As long as the child is loved and cared for who gives a shit about their parents' marital status.
I was born in the 70s & if there was a child born out of wedlock it may have raised a few eyebrows but nothing more.
I personally believe that sex should wait until marriage, but committing two wrongs (sex before marriage and then abortion) wouldn't solve anything. So yes, I think having the child and raising him/her is ideal; getting married to raise the child is another good option. There are also a lot of people willing to adopt, so you could look into that if you aren't up for being a parent.