Is it ever okay to admit that you're emo if you truly are one?

I'm actually way older than 18, and not everybody who called me a poser were 14 that time.

As for me being annoyed by some people who call certain true emos as "posers", well, I guess I just dislike fundamentalism, and I think there can be fundamentalism in some fashion subcultures too.

Then again, perhaps fundamentalism is the wrong word, but you know, I mean those people who always are like "you are not ____ enough if you ____".