I don't think there's anything wrong with fantasizing about a fictional character. I doubt most people stop having crushes, whether on real or fictional people, once they're in a relationship. As long as there's no cheating, it's fine in my book.
From what you said, it sounds like things aren't as satisfying in your relationship as they used to be, and maybe that's why you've developed this crush. I've found that real people can never fully match the perfection of fictional characters, so it's important to ask myself if I'm being unrealistic with my expectations about relationships. Sometimes I realize that I am being unrealistic and I try to appreciate what I have, but other times I realize a relationship isn't working and it's time to work on the problems or leave. Whatever you do is your call! Good luck.
Is it emotional cheating to fantasize about a fictional character?
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I don't think there's anything wrong with fantasizing about a fictional character. I doubt most people stop having crushes, whether on real or fictional people, once they're in a relationship. As long as there's no cheating, it's fine in my book.
From what you said, it sounds like things aren't as satisfying in your relationship as they used to be, and maybe that's why you've developed this crush. I've found that real people can never fully match the perfection of fictional characters, so it's important to ask myself if I'm being unrealistic with my expectations about relationships. Sometimes I realize that I am being unrealistic and I try to appreciate what I have, but other times I realize a relationship isn't working and it's time to work on the problems or leave. Whatever you do is your call! Good luck.