I've never had this problem. It seems like you and your hubby need to sit down and have a serious talk about what your expectations are regarding "your" finances.
See, I used your. As I understand things, when you are in a marriage, you share property, band accounts, and possessions. So, I believe the hurt you've voiced to be perfectly normal. If he's worried about you taking his money, then maybe he needs a sperate account for his personal needs. I can't speak for why a married man would react this way to you taking money for family needs.
You've got to talk with him. This seems to have been going on far too long if you've said years.
is it considered community property?
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I've never had this problem. It seems like you and your hubby need to sit down and have a serious talk about what your expectations are regarding "your" finances.
See, I used your. As I understand things, when you are in a marriage, you share property, band accounts, and possessions. So, I believe the hurt you've voiced to be perfectly normal. If he's worried about you taking his money, then maybe he needs a sperate account for his personal needs. I can't speak for why a married man would react this way to you taking money for family needs.
You've got to talk with him. This seems to have been going on far too long if you've said years.
Good luck.