Is it cheating to talk about sexual fantasies?
I confessed anonymously about having a sexual fantasy and then ended up describing it to a stranger via anonymous messaging. I w asnt trying to arouse them or role play or get dirty with this stranger I was just trying to get the thoughts out. But now I feel bad, despite not flirting with the person or trying to arouse them. Is it cheating just to talk to people about your fantasies even if you're not trying to be dirty with them? (To clarify in our relationship, sexting would count as cheating but this is not quite the same) I feel bad and love him very much. Should I tell him about it and see how he feels? Idk if he would understand..