Just because ya'll are girls, this is STILL cheating. Both of you are in committed relationships, but this experience went sexual. And you guys have done it MULTIPLE times. Think of it this way- let's say your boyfriend became your husband. But you find out he's been having sex/sexual experiences with another man. Won't this hurt you? This would hurt about anybody! Think about the man she's married to and god, if they have children? This is devastating, man.
Honestly, it's denial. You're both trying to come up with excuses to tell yourself it's not cheating if it's the same gender. UNLESS if your partner and her partner are ok with open relationships, then it's okay. If not then...? Pretty fucked up.
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Just because ya'll are girls, this is STILL cheating. Both of you are in committed relationships, but this experience went sexual. And you guys have done it MULTIPLE times. Think of it this way- let's say your boyfriend became your husband. But you find out he's been having sex/sexual experiences with another man. Won't this hurt you? This would hurt about anybody! Think about the man she's married to and god, if they have children? This is devastating, man.
Honestly, it's denial. You're both trying to come up with excuses to tell yourself it's not cheating if it's the same gender. UNLESS if your partner and her partner are ok with open relationships, then it's okay. If not then...? Pretty fucked up.