Is it an obsession or am i in love?

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Theres this boy, he is the most beautiful person appearance and personality wise I have ever met. He makes my tummy do backflips when hes near me, i hear his voice and my ears tingle, he smiles or laughs and I feel dizzy, we are now in a relationship but he hardly acts like he loves me, I hurt really bad when i think he doesnt love me, he had a previous girl who he liked but he was more loving to her than he is to me, I am not jealous however I feel like i need his love to live. Help me I want someone to just help me be happy with him.

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  • la_uva_mojada
    11 years ago

    Offer him booze & a bj... he'll be yours

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    • ohplease
      11 years ago

      Not neccessarily the best advice for self respect or anything, but probably accurate.

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      • ohplease
        11 years ago

        Maybe cook him a steak and a pie too, guys like food, too. If you keep him fed and sexually satisfied I think most guys are pretty content.

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  • Lucyg123
    12 years ago

    Be a lover

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  • LoveYouBabe
    13 years ago

    I have the same problem, I feel as though he doesn't feel the same as I do about him. So it is hard to not be crazy in love with him. I don't want to make him feel stressed or awkward.

    The difference is that I have known my boyfriend for 3 years and we are best friends. So before he used to tell me about everything, about the girls he liked. So that just makes me nervous knowing that he really liked this girl before me that broke his heart.. So I am stuck.

    I hope everything goes well for you. <3

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  • Bobert
    14 years ago

    I doubt it's love if you only just started going out.

    "he hardly acts like he loves me" - This sounds a bit like you're being too needy if you're constantly expecting roses and poems. Not every guy is like that. You just have to relax and have fun in the relationship as if you're constantly trying to make him show his "love" then he's just going to view you as work and eventually get bored of it.

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  • musicislife101
    14 years ago

    i think you love him honestly

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  • KimmyKhaosXD
    14 years ago

    ^ dont listen to the person above mehh[Alaxett], listen to gabriell.

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  • Alaxett
    14 years ago

    Yeah you're obsessed to him, and I hate to break it to you, if you didn't follow your instinct to back off from wishful thinking about him, he will break your heart. He feel awkward about the relationship and want to get out of it so he can hopping into someone one else because you expected too much affection from him that it make him feel stressed.

    When I'm in love with anyone, the first thing I need to be aware of is if she is not into me, so I don't go crazy about losing her, so she won't freak out and be relax around me... if it don't work out, have a friend of opposite gender is better than nothing - it's priceless to have alot of buddies on your side, plus it's pretty cheap 'cause relationship is all about two-way street, give-and-take, and I have yet to master it. Trust me, I was in obsession once for long time and I get over it so I understand it's hard for you to slap yourself out of it at first.

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  • Gabriell
    14 years ago

    See If there was something his girlfriend gave him that you don't. Be very tender with him and communicate. Guys are hard to feel love so it may well take time, and you must also prove yourself to be worthier of love than his previous lady. good luck...

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