You're 21. It is selfish for you to be (co)dependent on others. If you have some college credits you are not entirely useless, embrace the strength that got you that and do it again! It sounds like you're making excuses and letting fear consume you. You know, you say it yourself that you need to force yourself into some uncomfortable situations to grow. Listen to yourself, you're better than you give yourself credit for!
I think that’s where most of the confusion and guilt comes from! I’ve been making a lot of excuses lately because I fear that doing the work and failing will make me fall deeper into some sort of mental health bullshit that I won’t be able to control. I am 21 but I feel vastly unprepared for a lot of what might be happening. Instead maybe I should ask what’s a way that you’ve handled stress and change? Did you have any growing pains at all?
Is it alright to be a bit selfish?
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You're 21. It is selfish for you to be (co)dependent on others. If you have some college credits you are not entirely useless, embrace the strength that got you that and do it again! It sounds like you're making excuses and letting fear consume you. You know, you say it yourself that you need to force yourself into some uncomfortable situations to grow. Listen to yourself, you're better than you give yourself credit for!
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I think that’s where most of the confusion and guilt comes from! I’ve been making a lot of excuses lately because I fear that doing the work and failing will make me fall deeper into some sort of mental health bullshit that I won’t be able to control. I am 21 but I feel vastly unprepared for a lot of what might be happening. Instead maybe I should ask what’s a way that you’ve handled stress and change? Did you have any growing pains at all?