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Yeah it can be fun to flirt back and forth but some people just don't have it in them and are better at actually doing it, or just not that type of person. How do you feel if you're not getting back the response you expect and want?
For me, flirting is about being on the same page as someone. If someone responds in a way that shows they've understood, it shows they understand you personally. If they respond and trump your flirtiness, then it becomes a game. It's all about saying something without actually saying it and knowing the other person knows exactly what you mean. How subtle you can be and how far away from the meaning you can go while the other person still understands is a sign of kinship between you and that's kind of attractive to me. I hate being misunderstood (although I am often).
But a person doesn't have to be flirty for me to find them attractive. They could be quirky, caring, different, etc. As long as there's some basis for an interest in them.
I don't know why but women who like puns are a rare breed. I did meet one once, though. Don't know where she is now but she told me one of the best puns I've ever heard, and it was a pun about puns, which made it even better.
She said she wanted to see how many of her puns were funny so she emailed ten of them to someone to see how many made them laugh. No pun in ten did.
Sadly, you're right women who like puns in Australia are a rare breed. I'm so longing for one that I almost completely overlook looks now. I just want a personality that clicks with mine.
Also we are tied for the lead; I scored 1 up on you with the Pun wars (cold, punic, civil) and you evened up on me with the country puns.
But you know what? My therapist says I have a preoccupation with vengence...we'll see about that.
I suggest you look up on youtube, Words, Words, Words by Bo Burnham, took me ages to get all his puns. Alternatively, you could read my profile infomation.