I personally think it was cold to block her like that. I dont know enough details but from what you have wrote I believe it was wrong. I would have tried to talk her through it more. I know it's not your responsibility to pamper her ass but if you truly were her friend and not just using her for sex you would continue to be her friend and work it out. That is why she feels used because she thought yall were friends and you cut her off quick.
In a bittersweet sense he cut her off since he saw her attachment to him was unhealthy she wouldn't have moved on if it weren't for that little push, she will always have feelings for him if they have history and they are friends and she might even try to test the friendship by being really flirty or unwanted advances /romantic gestures that OP made clear he doesn't want her to do
Tried every way to avoid this step but she eventually gets back to the same situation( crying , wants to end her life ).
She knows that my move will help her but she doesn’t have the courage to deal with it. At the end i talked to her again and apologized for the blocking and the way I am treating her and made her feel better with no hard feelings then we wished the best for each other then told her I’m blocking her again to avoid any communication and she is fine with it.
Well, we talked and she understood why I have did it in that way to avoid her from contacting me during her weakness. and apologized for her and she is fine with it no hard feelings and we both wished the best for each other in the last
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I personally think it was cold to block her like that. I dont know enough details but from what you have wrote I believe it was wrong. I would have tried to talk her through it more. I know it's not your responsibility to pamper her ass but if you truly were her friend and not just using her for sex you would continue to be her friend and work it out. That is why she feels used because she thought yall were friends and you cut her off quick.
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In a bittersweet sense he cut her off since he saw her attachment to him was unhealthy she wouldn't have moved on if it weren't for that little push, she will always have feelings for him if they have history and they are friends and she might even try to test the friendship by being really flirty or unwanted advances /romantic gestures that OP made clear he doesn't want her to do
Tried every way to avoid this step but she eventually gets back to the same situation( crying , wants to end her life ).
She knows that my move will help her but she doesn’t have the courage to deal with it. At the end i talked to her again and apologized for the blocking and the way I am treating her and made her feel better with no hard feelings then we wished the best for each other then told her I’m blocking her again to avoid any communication and she is fine with it.
Well, we talked and she understood why I have did it in that way to avoid her from contacting me during her weakness. and apologized for her and she is fine with it no hard feelings and we both wished the best for each other in the last
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Good man