Is is normal to have trouble finding a sadistic partner?

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I've been a masochist for a long time now, and for a large portion of that time, I've been searching for a sadistic partner. But, I've had no luck at all :/
I'm not sure if this is because there aren't many sadists out there.

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Based on 12 votes (5 yes)
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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    10 years ago

    Been looking for a desi girl to piss on me but no luck either. Oh in relationships you can bring that up but pure fetish searches online just yield zero results. Every fetish personals site has a 10,000 to 1 male/female ratio IMO.
    Even on this website there are allegedly girls who have crazy fetishes but when push comes to shove they don't answer.
    I don't even mean "dirty" fetishes but even the recurrent "do young girls like older men" threads will get some nice looking percentage but post a reply where you say you're 36 and no girl answers it.
    At the fb age women have power and it truly sux to be male.

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    • healthy-omnipotence
      10 years ago

      I think it's mostly that some women tend to over-exaggerate their fetishes to be kinkier (or, more-so the women I know) then they actually are, so they may be more prone to backing out of what they've said about fetishes. Of course, this is just from what I've seen.

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals
        10 years ago

        I also noticed how most women with dirtier fetishes do it with other girls. A bit as if a man with weird fetishes is assumed to be a creep or a threat.

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        • healthy-omnipotence
          10 years ago

          Yeah, I feel kinda bad for guys like that; must be awful getting judged so quickly like that :/

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Blame other men for putting women on the pedestal.

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        I will never take the bait you throw.

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  • CreativeThinker
    10 years ago

    I am sadist and I never got another like me....Even though there are many out there but its Probably luck factor which hinders them to come in contact with u

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    These things are more common than people openly talk about.
    I'm surprised a girl has trouble with this.
    Be careful to find someone who is only sadistic sexually or you may get more than you wish for by getting someone who is seriously abusive. It's no joke.

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    • healthy-omnipotence
      10 years ago

      Yes, I understand that :)
      Although, it must definitely be hard to tell a sexual sadist from a general sadist early on :/

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        Watch how they treat others.

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        • healthy-omnipotence
          10 years ago

          And why were you surprised that a girl was having trouble with this?

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            Because girls have it much easier to find guys willing to engage with their sexual fantasies.
            Most men are not hard to seduce.
            Lots of men die virgins not by choice but with women being a virgin is either their choice or a result of not leaving the house.

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            • healthy-omnipotence
              10 years ago

              Perhaps, but there's a big difference between finding an actual sadist and simply finding someone willing to engage in sexual fantasies; a REALLY big difference.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    You can probably check on craigslist or something. lol. You can find anything on craigslist if you look hard enough.

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    • healthy-omnipotence
      10 years ago

      Haha! You're probably right :)

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      • [Old Memory]
        10 years ago

        I think you just need to find a turbo slut.

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        • healthy-omnipotence
          10 years ago

          Doesn't "turbo slut" only apply to girls?

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          • [Old Memory]
            10 years ago

            Guys can be turbo sluts as well.

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  • gummy_jr
    10 years ago

    This is racist

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    • healthy-omnipotence
      10 years ago

      No. No it's not.

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  • linchpin
    10 years ago

    Aw cheer up, noone likes a sad sadist :)

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    • healthy-omnipotence
      10 years ago

      A sad sadist?

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      • linchpin
        10 years ago

        Yep

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