Is is normal to have trouble finding a sadistic partner?

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I've been a masochist for a long time now, and for a large portion of that time, I've been searching for a sadistic partner. But, I've had no luck at all :/
I'm not sure if this is because there aren't many sadists out there.

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals
    9 years ago | pl

    Been looking for a desi girl to piss on me but no luck either. Oh in relationships you can bring that up but pure fetish searches online just yield zero results. Every fetish personals site has a 10,000 to 1 male/female ratio IMO.
    Even on this website there are allegedly girls who have crazy fetishes but when push comes to shove they don't answer.
    I don't even mean "dirty" fetishes but even the recurrent "do young girls like older men" threads will get some nice looking percentage but post a reply where you say you're 36 and no girl answers it.
    At the fb age women have power and it truly sux to be male.

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    • healthy-omnipotence
      9 years ago | pl

      I think it's mostly that some women tend to over-exaggerate their fetishes to be kinkier (or, more-so the women I know) then they actually are, so they may be more prone to backing out of what they've said about fetishes. Of course, this is just from what I've seen.

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      • GoraIntoDesiGals
        9 years ago | pl

        I also noticed how most women with dirtier fetishes do it with other girls. A bit as if a man with weird fetishes is assumed to be a creep or a threat.

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    • [Old Memory]
      9 years ago | pl

      Blame other men for putting women on the pedestal.

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago | pl

        I will never take the bait you throw.

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  • CreativeThinker
    9 years ago | pl

    I am sadist and I never got another like me....Even though there are many out there but its Probably luck factor which hinders them to come in contact with u

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    These things are more common than people openly talk about.
    I'm surprised a girl has trouble with this.
    Be careful to find someone who is only sadistic sexually or you may get more than you wish for by getting someone who is seriously abusive. It's no joke.

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    • healthy-omnipotence
      9 years ago | pl

      Yes, I understand that :)
      Although, it must definitely be hard to tell a sexual sadist from a general sadist early on :/

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      • [Old Memory]
        9 years ago | pl

        Watch how they treat others.

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        • healthy-omnipotence
          9 years ago | pl

          And why were you surprised that a girl was having trouble with this?

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          • [Old Memory]
            9 years ago | pl

            Because girls have it much easier to find guys willing to engage with their sexual fantasies.
            Most men are not hard to seduce.
            Lots of men die virgins not by choice but with women being a virgin is either their choice or a result of not leaving the house.

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  • [Old Memory]
    9 years ago | pl

    You can probably check on craigslist or something. lol. You can find anything on craigslist if you look hard enough.

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  • gummy_jr
    9 years ago | pl

    This is racist

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  • linchpin
    9 years ago | pl

    Aw cheer up, noone likes a sad sadist :)

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