Humans are generally visual creatures, but some of us are more olfactory, and you seem to be someone whose sense of smell plays an important role in arousal.
You're happy and she's happy, so that's cool.
However, Rose makes an excellent point: it seems you're attracted the woman only because of her nicotine addiction and how she looks and smells. All those things can change, and she has every right to change any or all of those things. So what happens if she does change? Are you going to immediately shoot off looking for another woman who reeks of tobacco and BO? That's your right too, but I think it would be fair for her to understand that, and to know you're not with her because you actually like the person she is, but for much more superficial reasons.
Is is normal to have the following fetish?
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Humans are generally visual creatures, but some of us are more olfactory, and you seem to be someone whose sense of smell plays an important role in arousal.
You're happy and she's happy, so that's cool.
However, Rose makes an excellent point: it seems you're attracted the woman only because of her nicotine addiction and how she looks and smells. All those things can change, and she has every right to change any or all of those things. So what happens if she does change? Are you going to immediately shoot off looking for another woman who reeks of tobacco and BO? That's your right too, but I think it would be fair for her to understand that, and to know you're not with her because you actually like the person she is, but for much more superficial reasons.