Is is normal to fall hard for someone you barely know?

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I tend to fall completely head over heals in love with people I don't even know, and most of the time, don't even want to like. But I still get such strong feelings for them, the kind were you start to imagine your life together, and it actually pains you to be away from them for long periods of time. I don't ever actually talk to these people, but I am usually exposed to them daily, and when i'm cut of from there presence, I usually go through withdrawal periods were i am utterly depressed for at least 4 months, and i usually don't get completely over them for a year....and then it just happens again with another random person. So basically If i didn't have such strong feelings for these people, i wouldn't like them..I wouldn't even be attracted to them. Is this normal?

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  • glassesguy9119
    12 years ago | pl

    I tend to fall completely head over heals in love with people I don't even know, thats all i need to read (im going to be liek valkeer on this one) its normal. happens to everywhere. you're good.

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  • black_houzi
    12 years ago | pl

    Yeah I feel yeah. It's normal, it's called the Mermaid Theory, look it up lol. Nut in all seriousness just relax, just know you have a choice on who you like.

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  • ClothCanopy
    12 years ago | pl

    Most people can relate that they develop little crushes on people, but it seems you take it to an unhealthy extreme. I only say unhealthy because you don't live in reality and deprive yourself of the actual companionship.

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  • alv1592
    12 years ago | pl

    if you don't know the person, it's not love. it's just a crush. but yes, it's normal to have a crush on anybody. but you may want to talk to these people instead of daydreaming. who knows, maybe something good can come from it.

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  • kit-kat-bar
    12 years ago | pl

    Its okay to feel like this, just don't get utterly depressed about it and try to think about something else, like write a song in your head next time you think this is going to happen. You just have nothing better to think about is all it is and you need to keep your mind happy and full of thoughts and thoughts of admiration and desire are the ones that you like the most.

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  • RentingEmotion
    12 years ago | pl

    Maybe that said person reminds you of someone, and that'd why you can like him without knowing him(:

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  • Ldizzy1234
    12 years ago | pl

    Omg! I thought I was the only one who was like this. I do it all the time. I thought maybe I had a problem or something. I mean, I never stalk them, but I thought for a while that it could be an obsession problem.

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