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I have had wonder frends who valued, appreciated respected each other not to use having sex as an important part at the beginning of a friendship building: after all sex is a very small part of building a trust in friendship:
Sex should come naturally, not with a given time frame. in my opinion, it depends on how much you genuinely care for someone. People throw sex around like it's no big deal, because they are a bunch of morons. Hey, STDs do exist and I can name off five people in my town with HIV. Condoms do not protect against Any sexually transmitted disease. Think about that. I'm glad I don't throw myself at random guys like most girls I know. Gross.
I agree wholeheartedly with your valueing that sex comes naturally, no given time, yes, it will differ from couple to couple also being sober has alot to do with your accepting that sex should come naturally: In quite a number of cases many have sex when they are innebriated with alcohol/drugs not making sense of what trust is in building a realtionship a good warning too STDs do exist and condoms play a huge part in letting one's guard down: But in the majority of builing trust and respect most don't even try sex:
Who said I was sober? I like that you value my opinion, but don't put words into my mouth. I do drugs all the time, dude. I experiment around and try new things every day, so are you trying to say that people who use drugs make bad decisions? That is where you are wrong and I have proven that to you just now. Stupid people and drugs don't mix. People like me on the other hand have used certain substances to open up my mind and body to the world. I was straight edge until I was 20 and really everything is still new to me. I don't plan on molding my life around drugs, because I have no need for any particular substance and do not understand drug addiction. It is still very easy for me to say no. It's cool that you gave valued input, but don't mistake me for a goody two shoes next time. ;)
I am not perfect either but that is true of all human beings THANKS FOR SHARING I I was not trying to put words into your mouth as your first reply was very honest and I happen to agree with your thinking that sex comes naturally: so live well laugh alot love much beginning and ending with loving your true self
Sex has no place in a friendship.
In a relationship, in depends on each partner's beliefs. Some want to wait until they've gotten married. Some don't want to have it so soon after they've just started to be with someone. Other's might not want it at all. I think it is always a good idea to talk about this with your partner to see where you both stand.
Uh yeah since all friends totally have sex. I dont know what world you live in.
Well you aren't in a friendship, you're in a relationship. Sex is a big part of a relationship for me as it's a way of physically declaring my love for that person. It's above and beyond a friendship, for me. However, if there is some expectation and pressure placed on you...then that's not right and if anyone did that to me, which they haven't...I'd be shocked and would probably leave that person. No-one has a right to pressurise you. I would also need to wait till I know I'm definitely in love. 3 dates...sounds crazy to me.
It sounds as if physical attraction is not a priority for you. Is this true?
oh physical atrraction drive me crazy at time and yes they are a priority in my life big time: every day I leave my house, some rear ends drive me absolutely mental all the time: oh yes the physical attraction is what I build my fantasy worlds: thanki you for asking
Does it sound like that? The priority for me, is how the other person makes me feel. But everything about them will contribute to that. If I am mentally attracted then I will become physically attracted later, even if I wasn't at first.