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I'm 20, almost 21. I've never had a boyfriend or been kissed. All through school I was overweight. In high school I decided to go on a diet and I lost a lot. I never had a boyfriend when I was overweight and since I've lost the weight I guess I just don't know how to talk to guys. I'm in college and still don't have a boyfried. I've never been on a date. A guy has never asked me. It's really bringing me down.
Wow people here are assholes. I am EXACTLY in the same boat as you! Don't let it bring you down yea maybe we both need a bit of experience but at least you're not a slut. I have friends that do so many things they regret and they make sooo many bad choices that it teaches me not to rush into things. I think you can learn a lot while ur still single and that way you will know what you should and shouldn't do in a relationship.
Oh and I actually get respect for not being a complete slut so don't let the rude comments make you feel bad. Not everyone is having sex or making out with random people.
One last thing: you never have to worry about STDs! At least for now anyway
I was overweight all through school also. It sucked! I didn't have my first kiss until a few months before my 18th bday (btw I just turned 20). Anyways, that guy was a douche. Moving on.. I lost alot of weight about a yr ago and the Boys started lining up. To make a long story short they all were assholes and I just ended up feeling shittier than I did when I was big. Sooo idk about normal when compared to today's society but you should def consider yourself lucky. U have ur whole life ahead of u, no need to rush!
Although society has programed us into thinking that being thin equals beauty/happiness, it's false advertising. On the other hand, being comfortable in one's skin does have an affect on how we develop confidence and self esteem. So to stay somewhere in the mid ground : Congratulations on losing some weight.
What now needs to happen is for you to gain a set of gonads and start just simply talking to guys and getting comfortable just being yourself around dudes. Once you get passed that level try asking a few guys out on dates. We are living in a new pre-teen millenium. Girls are allowed to do the asking in this day of age. And lady, the interwebs are full of dating websites nowadays. And watch the movie "He's just not that into you" cause it's a cute movie about having trouble reading signs in relationships. And it's normal to not have a boyfriend at 20. Most people don't and only a few lucky ones do. And out of those few lucky ones even less actually find their "soulmate" at 20. Sometimes soulmates get lost along the way cause unfortunately we haven't developed Love GPS yet. Be patient but keep working at it and you'll find what you are looking for.
Hope this helped :)
If you're of the female gender and have never been kissed that is the saddest thing I have ever heard.
you have the vagina giving you the advantage no matter what, just go to a bar sit on a stool spread your legs and waft the scent towards the crowd of desperate men.
You could be slammed by about 98% percent of the men in there