I voted yes...but I'm not really sure whether this is normal or not...I'm a Christian male...53 years old...and I believe God planted the "sexual desires" in us...but at the same time...I don't necessarily think of people who simply just don't get turned on by it as deviant...these days...pretty women still draw my attention (I'm single...never been married) but I generally lean towards those with Christian values and personality rather than just having looks...and I personally have found that how a woman looks to me is often shaped by that personality...not that an unappealing girl physically will look magically gorgeous because of their personality (this is not the movie Shallow Hal, after all) but she can be appealing to me because of that personality...while a physically desirable girl that...let's say...has less than a sterling personality can look much less desirable than her looks would otherwise suggest...and there are some who just don't find other sexually appealing...while not completely normal...is not...in my opinion...completely not normal either...
I am an Evangelical Christian as well. But I've come to realize that I just don't seem to view sex as important, rather as one of the closest forms of a connection you can have with another being, and I have found the person of which I feel I would have an even better connection mentally as opposed to physically.
Is is normal that I find sex unappealing?
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I voted yes...but I'm not really sure whether this is normal or not...I'm a Christian male...53 years old...and I believe God planted the "sexual desires" in us...but at the same time...I don't necessarily think of people who simply just don't get turned on by it as deviant...these days...pretty women still draw my attention (I'm single...never been married) but I generally lean towards those with Christian values and personality rather than just having looks...and I personally have found that how a woman looks to me is often shaped by that personality...not that an unappealing girl physically will look magically gorgeous because of their personality (this is not the movie Shallow Hal, after all) but she can be appealing to me because of that personality...while a physically desirable girl that...let's say...has less than a sterling personality can look much less desirable than her looks would otherwise suggest...and there are some who just don't find other sexually appealing...while not completely normal...is not...in my opinion...completely not normal either...
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I am an Evangelical Christian as well. But I've come to realize that I just don't seem to view sex as important, rather as one of the closest forms of a connection you can have with another being, and I have found the person of which I feel I would have an even better connection mentally as opposed to physically.