As an asexual myself, i can assure you that there is still drama.
You want a connection with someone, but all they want is sex. They leave you because you wont put out for them, OR you put out for them to make them happy while sacrificing your own happiness.
People will think you're hiding something. When i told my father that i was asexual he thought i was fucking animals.... all because im a vegan and i like animals more than i like people....still a riduculous and disgusting accusation.
People will start not trusting you because they think youre hiding something. People will think youre a freak because your not interested in sex. Friends will leave because all they wanted was sex.
Theres definitly drama being an asexual in and of itself :(
i didn’t mean no drama. i should’ve said less drama in certain circumstances. some asexuals don’t want a relationship at all including sex. i assume there’s much less drama for those asexuals. also the asexuals who date other asexuals. although it’s probably tough to find another open asexual, if you find it, it would seem to be perfect. i know all relationships have some drama and what you describe does sound awful. i’m envious over the asexuals that don’t desire a relationship at all.
Its true that asexuals who can easily sustain themselves and dont desire a relationship would have a lot less hardships yeah! People in general are full of bullshit, but this is coming from myself, a misanthropist. But, in my opinion, you are totally right to say they would have a lot less stressors.
Is is it normal that I don't like flirting?
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As an asexual myself, i can assure you that there is still drama.
You want a connection with someone, but all they want is sex. They leave you because you wont put out for them, OR you put out for them to make them happy while sacrificing your own happiness.
People will think you're hiding something. When i told my father that i was asexual he thought i was fucking animals.... all because im a vegan and i like animals more than i like people....still a riduculous and disgusting accusation.
People will start not trusting you because they think youre hiding something. People will think youre a freak because your not interested in sex. Friends will leave because all they wanted was sex.
Theres definitly drama being an asexual in and of itself :(
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i didn’t mean no drama. i should’ve said less drama in certain circumstances. some asexuals don’t want a relationship at all including sex. i assume there’s much less drama for those asexuals. also the asexuals who date other asexuals. although it’s probably tough to find another open asexual, if you find it, it would seem to be perfect. i know all relationships have some drama and what you describe does sound awful. i’m envious over the asexuals that don’t desire a relationship at all.
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Its true that asexuals who can easily sustain themselves and dont desire a relationship would have a lot less hardships yeah! People in general are full of bullshit, but this is coming from myself, a misanthropist. But, in my opinion, you are totally right to say they would have a lot less stressors.
Damn!