That's totally normal and understandable. Just tell them that you don't actually like flirting, and that's it. If they are gentle and do really want to be with you, they'll stop flirting.
I think a lot of people act like if a person doesn't flirt then they're no fun, or whatever, but truthfully I just don't like it. I only enjoy flirting if it's someone I'm totally into, and there are mutual feelings, or if it's someone I know isn't into me, and it's completely just a joke. Most flirting is just weird and creepy to me.
This also happens to me. I find flirting creepy in so many ways, and I can't understand the people who like it. I mean, it's great if it's just a joke. But I don't like it in any other way, unless if we have been dating for some time.
I find flirting creepy too. Except in my case it's mostly boys ages 14-17 doing it. I'm like 30 but on a good day of sleep, I look like I'm friggin 15. They refuse to believe me when I say I'm old enough to be their mother and won't back off right away. Yuck!
I think it's annoying, but less so when it's the younger guys who seem to be bugging me. What I really hate to the bone is older dudes trying to talk to me. They make my skin crawl.
Is is it normal that I don't like flirting?
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That's totally normal and understandable. Just tell them that you don't actually like flirting, and that's it. If they are gentle and do really want to be with you, they'll stop flirting.
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I think a lot of people act like if a person doesn't flirt then they're no fun, or whatever, but truthfully I just don't like it. I only enjoy flirting if it's someone I'm totally into, and there are mutual feelings, or if it's someone I know isn't into me, and it's completely just a joke. Most flirting is just weird and creepy to me.
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This also happens to me. I find flirting creepy in so many ways, and I can't understand the people who like it. I mean, it's great if it's just a joke. But I don't like it in any other way, unless if we have been dating for some time.
I find flirting creepy too. Except in my case it's mostly boys ages 14-17 doing it. I'm like 30 but on a good day of sleep, I look like I'm friggin 15. They refuse to believe me when I say I'm old enough to be their mother and won't back off right away. Yuck!
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I think it's annoying, but less so when it's the younger guys who seem to be bugging me. What I really hate to the bone is older dudes trying to talk to me. They make my skin crawl.