Is is it normal overly obsessed with being gay and straight?
Seriously, half the threads on here are people asking "am I gay, am I STRaight. I'm serious. There seems to be an obsession with being gay on IIN.
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Seriously, half the threads on here are people asking "am I gay, am I STRaight. I'm serious. There seems to be an obsession with being gay on IIN.
A lot of people are trying to figure themselves out, trying to figure out which label they fit under. IIN is a way for them to get some insight on this personal question without family/friends finding out.
Some people just want to characterise themselves. It makes them feel a little bit closer to figuring out who they are. I think it's normal for people to try and do so online, which ever site it may be.
I think this site just attracts people who are unsure about their sexuality. After all this is a site called "Is It Normal". It only makes sense that people are going to come here for questions concerning their sexuality. You see a lot of questions from asexuals too.
I agree. A lot of people on this site truly are gay, but are repressed about it and IIN is a way to discuss it. Also, there are people who probably are not gay who begin to question their orientation as a result of a few fleeting homoerotic thoughts here and there, get worried about it, and post it on here.
I actually think this is a good site for all. Some don't really know their sexuality, others are damn sure, still others maybe like myself get to comment on what life has meant for some of us. Being gay or straight makes a difference in what direction one goes in making a happy life.
Many will be happy being gay. Many will be happy being straight. Society has changed in the last fifty years, and now there are advantages to each direction.
If you are in doubt, just take a look at the divorce rate for the supposedly straight. I haven't seen the spilt figure for the gays, but percentage wise, it's probably less.
One might be "bisexual" and still be fine in society or with the people in their group.
There are more ways to make you a happy person today than ever before. I say, go the "gusto". Do what you feel like and change if required.
Seriously, this got thru but my post about jacking off to Lane Bryant catalogs didn't? WTF?
Oh how I'd love to have one of their models wrap her stubby chubby fingers around my turgid prong and stroke me off until I'm a quivering, panting heap with gobs of my procreative goop dripping from the ceiling. Ooow all that soft women flesh drives me crazy.
Wait, what was the original question?