Is hoping pointless

I had a crush on my roommate. He knew I liked him, but he didn't want to be in a relationship with me. Instead..... was a "SIREN," he would play on my feeling when he wanted to sleep with me. I if course fell for it every time like a fool. Only now I'm 13 weeks pregnant with his baby. He brought a female over that night I told him. Not to mention he wabrs nothing to do with the baby and tried to demand for me to have an abortion, keep quiet about the whole situation, and go thru it all by myself. It's all a MESSY SITUATION!!!! I moved out. It has been a month. I have this hope aND prayer that he will come around to just ask how the baby is doing. I want to text him. To start a normal convo to get him 2 respond but what the heck do you say to get the guy to respond that's not going to start a negative conversation. My family says he will never step up to the plate with how he has acted about the pregnancy so far. That I need to let it go. He just doesn't act like one of the guys that are dead beat dads.

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  • Nickvey

    i bet he has moved on to some non pregnant pussy by now , will you be having another dudes baby latter on. most gals have about three kids without a daddy among them. do you have two sisters?

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  • RoseIsabella

    Sue him for child support. He probably won't be there for you, and the baby in a literal way, but the courts can see to it that he shoulders his financial responsibility at least. I'm sorry that he's not the nice decent person that you wanted him to be, but rather he's just a user, and a piece of shit jerk.

    Sounds like you are at least doing what you feel is the right thing for yourself, and your unborn child, and for that I salute you. In the future I would recommend you not sleeping with anyone without a condom, and not sleeping with someone you're not in a relationship with as well as making your strong Pro-Life status clear to anyone who wants to try to get into your pants. Some people are just users, and your ex-roommate is one of them. Good on you for not allowing him to convince you to have an abortion when that's not what you wanted.

    I truly wish you, and your baby all the best!

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  • Be the lioness in the situation. Raise your child like the queen you are. Provide for the child, love him/her with all your heart, and remember, Queens dont need Kings.

    You don’t need to prove yourself to this man, you don’t need to wait around for him either. Live you life, travel if you want, see things, and have your precious baby. But don’t wait on him. It’s his fault for being a dumbass player.
    Take care of yourself OP, and hoping for the right things, is never pointless.

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