Is he still flirting with me?

Kind of a weird story but not trolling:

I met him on a small Italian community online. I had a lot of guys hit on me on that website and he was the one who caught my attention the most, but I'm 41 and he's 21, and I have a husband. He's good-looking, sweet, charming and a very relaxed person, I enjoyed talking to him through the PM service of that website, and at some point I started feeling something for him. He gave me his number and I talked to him for the first time. I told him I was thinking of him all day and that I just didn't want to end the call.
I'll keep it short: he said he wanted to meet me and at that point I realised that everything was wrong with this story. I share my apartment with my husband, we're married, we pay the bills together and that guy is only 21 and still a student. I told him that we can't be more than friends. At first he blocked me, I called him crying because I didn't want to lose him forever and he unblocked me. Now he's saying that he's got over his crush for me and that he's seeing another girl and that he wants to stay friends as he doesn't want to lose me after all the time we spent texting and calling each other, but yesterday I changed my Whatsapp picture and he texted me '' how beautiful can you be? I'm speechless. I love you, my older sister ''
We live 100 miles away and we're meeting for the first time next weekend, buy I told him se will hang out as friends.

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Comments ( 5 )
  • Iszzy123

    Be CARFUL sound likes just the beginning of what is to be an affair
    I mean there’s a difference between “I’m married”and “I love my husband”

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  • d0esnormalmatter

    Man cheaters are real scum uggggg I hate these posts.

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  • So conflicted on what opinion to have on Milf Hunters.

    On one hand it makes my skin itch thinking about some middle aged woman getting giggly over a young guy, but on the other it’s refreshing to hear about a dude with an age gap fetish that ISN’T some pedophile shit....

    Ah fuck someone make my mind up for me I don’t have the brain power for this

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  • RoseIsabella

    You sound like someone who is unhappy in her marriage, and just itching to cheat on her husband. I'm glad that you chose to back off the situation with this young man who is young enough to be your son. However, I think you need to try to pinpoint what the problem is with your spouse before another opportunity to cheat presents itself.

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  • DIO

    You're a terrible, selfish person. I'm so glad I'm not your husband.

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