Is he gay or is his behaviour normal

One day waiting for my now ex to come home from work I decided that I would spice things up a bit and get dressed up in some sexy underwear ready to reveal myself the second he walked in the door if I'm honest I looked pretty damn hot stockings suspenders heels etc so I hears the door open and I got up opened my robe to show him what he could have and guess what? All he said was oh! Then walked passed me I never felt so humiliated in my life because I have never dressed up for a guy before anyways is it normal for a guy to do this and any ideas as to why he rejected me like that

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  • Why would u assume he's gay. I hope u didn't break up just because he wouldn't have sex with u. U can't ask internet trolls if ur boyfriends gay only he can tell u that. There are more valued apects of a relationship than spontaneous sex. Maybe u shouldn't have sprung it up on him and tried to force it but make it happen freely and on its own time

    And even if he wasn't attracted to or comfortable with U doesn't mean he's gay

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  • Good thing he is your ex.

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  • You sound like a needy cunt - he's better off without you

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  • The only reason that would be okay is if he ran in the bathroom to take a quick shower then be right back out to satisfy you. If it would have been me I would have showered really fast and would have been right back in front of you before you knew it. For such a sexy surprise I would do whatever dirty thing you have thought of, seen, or heard about that turned you on, you wanted to try or were even curious about! Maybe not gay, but definitely a fucking idiot!

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  • he already had the candybar, you can't put a wrapper on it and call it new. dont be stupid. Must be a woman thing because they all try this shit at some point . who gives a fuck if he is an ex husband. he got rid of the neurotic bitch.

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  • Well, I guess he's your ex for a reason. Good on you for moving on with your life.

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  • GAY IS NORMAL

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  • I'm not gay but I find all that traditionally 'sexy' dress most unsexy!

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  • Maybe you scared him and he wasn't ready

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  • Hi

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  • Poor thing that must have been humiliating! I've known alot of guys that don't want sex all the time like the stereotype, either self esteem, lack of interest, stress, or who knows it could be a number of things. Don't let it interfere with your confidence. Just talk with him and keep the emotions out and just try to understand what was up

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    • I'm like OP's ex. OP you did the female equivalent of just wiping it out. Unless you are with someone who has super high libido, a horndog if you will, those tactics will not work after a long day at work and they just want to relax.

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    • She says he's an "ex"

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  • He is definetely not gay just because of that statement think of this, remember the first time you got your bike how excited you where it was freaking radical best thing since sliced bread right! overtime it lost the amazing feeling of being nice and amazing. your the bike, hes taken you out for a spin plenty of times it doesnt matter how much decorations you put on it, your getting old, your not as exciting as the first time he saw you. It happens in all relationships

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  • I wish a woman would do that for me. Sexyyyyyyy!

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  • Yeah maybe he was just not in the mood for it or had a rough day or something, though he definitely should have explained himself

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  • Try on a day after he rested. Good luck

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  • Im sure you are ok. I am 38 an a welder sometimes its hot at work an am so tired i dont want sex. I just want to sit down. Dont take it personaly. He should have atleast said something..

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  • He probably had a rough day or doesn't like a "hey look at me" approach. Many guys like to undress their ladies. Put the sexy stuff on underneath and just come on to him softly. You'll be pleasantly suprized

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  • Perhaps he had a headache.

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  • Maybe he wasnt in the mood but if i were him i would of dropped whatever i was holding and give you some attention

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