I don't like it. It sounds like your BF is a possible abusive jackass. Bottom line, tell him in no uncertain terms if he is doing ANYTHING you don't like. If he doesn't respect your opinion, GET OUT and never look back. You can't imagine how bad it can get for you, your friends and your family.
On a side note, sometimes using a "mirror" approach -- simply suggesting to said clown 'what he would think if you held a lighter up to his skin and told him not to whine about it' illustrates the point nicely. If he's a nice guy he'll realize he's starting to seem like a certified asshole and never do it again. Any other reaction from him is suspect. I wouldn't physically try the lighter trick on him -- if your boyfriend truly is a little violent he might get angry and physically retaliate.
Is he becoming abusive?
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I don't like it. It sounds like your BF is a possible abusive jackass. Bottom line, tell him in no uncertain terms if he is doing ANYTHING you don't like. If he doesn't respect your opinion, GET OUT and never look back. You can't imagine how bad it can get for you, your friends and your family.
On a side note, sometimes using a "mirror" approach -- simply suggesting to said clown 'what he would think if you held a lighter up to his skin and told him not to whine about it' illustrates the point nicely. If he's a nice guy he'll realize he's starting to seem like a certified asshole and never do it again. Any other reaction from him is suspect. I wouldn't physically try the lighter trick on him -- if your boyfriend truly is a little violent he might get angry and physically retaliate.