Is going to a massage parlor a reason not

when ur a dude and you go to a massage parlor trying to get a happy ending, is that a reason for their gf not to trust them?

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  • It's cheating, so of course it's a reason not to trust them. It's a reason to dump them.

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    • you classify that as cheating?

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      • Yeah obviously, if they're trying to get a happy ending.

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        • but there’s no emotional attachment to it.

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          • It's still cheating unless it's allowed by those in the relationship. Most people would consider it cheating if their significant other did that.

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            • he doesn’t think it is.. and whenever i bring it up he gets mad. i don’t know how to tell him how i feel about it w/o him getting mad

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          • He just making up that bullshit to fit his storyline so he can do whatever he wants, and you will put up with it. He's probably a very selfish person who say whatever bullshit he can come up with to get what he wants. I bet he abuses drugs, and alcohol too, huh?

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          • So? He could have sex with someone else and there wouldn't be any emotional attachment to it, in fact most of the time people cheat there isn't any emotional attachment.

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  • Why can't she do it? You sound like a scum bag.

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    • why can’t who do it? i’m the gf and i do do it. he hasn’t done it in awhile but he has in the past

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  • If you have a girlfriend, why would you need a hooker?

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  • Those places are still around?

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  • I honestly think guys who go to massage parlors for sexual encounters are jerks, losers and sex addicts who aren't worth the time it takes to tell them to get lost. Guys like that are garbage.

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    • Single guys with no girlfriend too?

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      • I wouldn't want to date someone like that, because it's like going to a prostitute. I suppose a single guy could do that, because he wouldn't be cheating on anyone, but regardless it's something that I believe is immoral, and it's something of which I disapprove.

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        • You certainly don't have to date someone like that, and you have the right to disapprove. But jerks and garbage?

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          • I just see that sort of behavior as a character flaw. I can't respect people who frequent those places.

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  • The question is, why does a guy with a perfectly virile girlfriend feel the need to pay a chick at a massage parlor to fire his flesh musket?

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    • ... because he had a fear of intimacy, especially emotional intimacy, and a fear of committment. I think a guy like that is a selfish child emotionally, and not worth a minute of time.

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    • why do you think?

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      • That'd be very difficult for me to answer. I don't know his mindset and the ins & outs of your relationship with him. But there's no denying that, whatever the reason, it's foul and blatantly disrespectful toward you.

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        • is this a reason not to trust him?

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          • Yes, but more importantly it's a reason not to be with him, or anyone like him. His behavior is a reason to dump him.

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        • well.. he doesn’t see it that way.

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          • ... because he's probably a narcissistic abuser who is trying not gaslight you. Dump him, and go no contact.

            At least go to the library, and read some books on narcissists, and or get you the Kindle app and download some books on narcissists. Also read books on codependency.

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  • Ya girl can't jerk you?

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