Is first time sex painful?

If you're adequately aroused and lubricated it shouldn't have to hurt.

To overcome the fear, pick a partner who you really trust (experienced ones are a less stressful pick, but inexperienced ones can help reduce the whole "oh no my virginity" mentality a bit). Remember to find a comfortable place to engage in the act itself. Try music, stay sober.

Did for me. After. Few times, it doesn't really hurt. As said above, pick an understanding and trustworthy partner. And you can totally get pregnated your first time so... condoms.

If I give oral first, my girls never complain about pain. That is my technique to keep the sexual life happy

Penis size plays a part. I'm particularly large, so sex hurt both my partner and I at first (was still totally worth it), but yeah she wasn't even a virgin. Lube helps and things adjust themselves lol. If you're really worried find a partner with a small one to start with, or get a small dildo lol

It hurts quite a lot, because the guy's dick has to break the tight skin in order to enter you. So, depending on how much it will be stretched, there is possibility that you will bleed, which is nothing to worry about. It'll feel better afterwards.

make sure if at any time it hurts, then if you tell the guy to stop, then he will stop. make sure you are not having sex with a rapist.

It hurts me to put a tampon in. I'm sure it's different for every girl but, for me, I don't even want to think about sex.

I don't even have to be a girl to know it hurts Lol...

If you are nervous of not controlling the pressure or intensity, you could try being on top, so you have more ease to move and accommodate if anything hurts a little.
Maybe knowing that you'll have control will help you worry less and enjoy more the first time.
Relax, enjoy it! And be safe!

It hurt, yes. Especially climbing on top for the first time, but you get used to it pretty fast and its better to be relaxed. Sex is a wonderful thing.

I'm not female but my best friend's girlfriend (ex now) told me that it did hurt, and my friend told me that it hurt for her aswell.

I'm sure it isn't always the case but I think from what I've heard that it could hurt. I've never been with a virgin before so I can't say I would know outside of someone elses experiences.

If it does hurt you should just fight through it. You'll miss out on sex if you let this fear keep a hold of you. A lot of things are bad before they get good. Just find a person that's willing to make you a non-virgin moreso than someone just wanting to have sex, that way you could work through it together and it may hurt but it'll be with someone who will be gentle. :)