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I just got back into touch with a man I dated while studying abroad a year ago (6,000 miles away). We skyped a few times, and one thing led to another, and we basically had cybersex on skype. This seems like the WRONG thing to do, because he is way too far away, and I know that I am only interested in a long-term relationship. Do things like this happen to other people?
Sure do! Lots of people cyber every day. And hey, it's a very safe form of sex... can't get pregnant or end up with an STD. So cyber away and enjoy! :)
i haven't done it in years, my artificial intelligence/hollow/holographic android lady is still sick with jealousy when i pretend the olsen twins are sleeping next to me. i'm so sad without them...
Everyone's case is different, but if this is someone who you want to be with and you and they are not with anyone else (IRL or online), especially with your feelings about having a serious relationship, it's totally normal and okay. If you end up drifting apart, that happens sometimes and it's okay. We all are lucky for those who bring us happiness and vice-versa. If you are meant to be together somehow, it will happen. It's normal, it's okay, and either way, it will work out.
I usually cyber in only words. If you mean getting naked on camera I would be careful who you do it with. Lots of people cyber though and video sex as well.
Cybersex happens all the time, with people from all different places across the globe.
Wanting a long-term relationship doesn't make having a short term relationship or even one night encounter, wrong. As long as you really aren't breaking your own moral and ethical code, I wouldn't worry about it and just enjoy your time. If you are breaking your own moral code, perhaps its time to reexamine that code and your behaviors and find some reasonable compromise.
But as for living too far apart to having a relationship with someone, I met my husband when we were kids, talking to him online - we lived 3 hours apart. Another friend of mine met her future and now husband online when she was living in Britain and he was in the States. Long distance relationships are great ways to start long term relationships because you spend a lot of time getting used to communicating with each other, less time basing your attraction on sex. It also means you combat matters of infidelity way early on (you'll either cheat when you're dating or you won't... if you're the type who won't ever, you'll have no troubles surviving anything else your relationship could go through when you're up close).