Is crossdressing normal?
I am an effeminate gay guy and all my family says that I'm too feminine and my style of clothing is "In your face"
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I am an effeminate gay guy and all my family says that I'm too feminine and my style of clothing is "In your face"
anyone who needs to make theys sexuality the centerpiece of theys whole identity ends up bein tedious predictable cliched and borin in my experience
So long as it's not hurting no one, do whatever the fuck makes you happy, and you wearing whatever clothes hurts absolutely no one.
Unfortunately we live in a society that allows women to dress any way they please, provided it is not indecent, but does not afford the same courtesy to men. It is up to you what you wear, but I am sorry to say that because you are a man you may get ridiculed or disaproved of for certain choices. I am a woman so do not have to put up with this particular area of discrimination, but I do feel sorry for you. That said I would not want my husband to start wearing dresses and make up, so who is to say what is right!!!
Yes, but what kinda person are you? I would rather know a really fey queen who was a nice and decent person than someone who looked "normal" on the outside, but was a screaming asshole on the inside. What kinda person you are inside really matters to me, and so if you're a nice guy try not to let what other people say about how you look affect you too much.
I don't think it's normal but it an be a lot fun? It's great fun to be waiting for that first pair of leather, three inch heels to get delivered? And it's a great turn on to send photos to guys who are interested in guys who crossdress!!
I told my girl friend she's practically a cross dresser because she wears men clothing
In this day in age, it is. No one cares anymore. Even kids are embracing it now.
Very normal. Whenever I dress up nice I always wear a cross It's my reminder of and symbol to others of my faith in Jesus.
I think from reading your reply comment that you're not actually concerned with if it's normal or not because you don't really care you're going to do whatever you want. That being said there is more to a style than a color and there is more to a color than just a generalization. When you combine an attitude and a color and a style you get an expression. Your clothes themselves might not be "in your face" but the style and then yourself might bring that expression out once it's all together.
Also I don't think cross-dressing is the term you're looking for as much as like maybe...gender-blending I think? If you're not wearing women's clothing then it's not cross-dressing by definition, if it's a men's pink shirt it's mostly normal but if you're throwing in some like skirts or things like that then yes, that would be cross-dressing.
Well, if you wear those out then yes, that is very much "in your face" as a clothing option goes but if you're wearing them behind closed doors it's no big deal. What you do in your own private home is up to you.
Cross-dressing is a fairly common thing and some men do it just to try and others do it regularly because they liked it or found something they just liked better than the male counter-part. So I'd have to say Yes, it's normal so enjoy it.
I was asking because I wore a black long sleeve mens shirt and pink leggings and I was at my aunts house for a family meetup, they all said that I was too gay looking and unchristian about my look.
Oooh yea that explains that, that is defintly a gay outfit for a guy, nothing wrong with it though, shame family can't accept relatives for who they are, my uncle one of the nicest albeit most annoying people you could ever meet( he preaches about god alot) would disown hos own kids if they were trans or gay it's like dude seriously your saying this crap to a trans woman for Christ sakes. Eh whatever to each there own
Yeah...the pink leggings out and about is going to be a very feminine thing; I have to agree with them on that aspect especially if they are religious people.
I grew up in a very small, very religious town and it made me painfully aware of even the tiny things that weren't "all guy."
I am a crossdresser, but I do not pass as female so I limit my dressing to behind closed doors.
You don't have to be gay to enjoy wearing women's clothing. The more taboo it is the more exciting for me. Of course I try not to blatantly advertise.after all I don't want to embarrass my children or shock the neibors too much.its so crazy how people can shun you based on your clothing choices.
Wear whatever you want man, p.s pink is toats the best color fully support it in clothing
If you wear a pink tooth fairy outfit, I would agree. If you only wear a pink thong under your blue jeans, then your family is being neurotically self conscious.
Clothes are clothes my dude. It's not like they all come with labels like this is this or that is that. Wear what you want to. You do you.
Some areas are more open minded about this kind of thing than others. To many factors to come up with an easy answer.
As far as who we are on the inside as well as outside and if the sort of align, so to speak, or if they are not like a jekyl and hyde. Like Rose said if the t are a good person no matter what, there will ALWAYS be someone who will criticize. There are people in the world that will bitch if they got shot with a dirty bullet. Even family will be some of the worst I think, because they want to try and "save" you from whatever they think the world will bring in your way. Do what you want, wear what you want, etc. Just remember that you will never please everyone around you.