Those things you mentioned would bother most people...
But most people would just let it go and move on without needing an audience to validate their feelings of irritation to.
You may think that voicing your aggravation out-loud (complaining) is helping you deal with the situation, but ultimately it is not. What is really happening is; you are making yourself, and the people around you feel worse. By drawing attention to these offenses you are wasting your time and energy on something you can never change, so it's in your best interest to just move past it.
Plus, it's not very likely that the offenders are giving these things as much thought as you are, so by dwelling, you are letting them win.
Is complaining normal
← View full post
Those things you mentioned would bother most people...
But most people would just let it go and move on without needing an audience to validate their feelings of irritation to.
You may think that voicing your aggravation out-loud (complaining) is helping you deal with the situation, but ultimately it is not. What is really happening is; you are making yourself, and the people around you feel worse. By drawing attention to these offenses you are wasting your time and energy on something you can never change, so it's in your best interest to just move past it.
Plus, it's not very likely that the offenders are giving these things as much thought as you are, so by dwelling, you are letting them win.