Is being good.. bad for me

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Hi I am 44 and when I look back on my time spent... I don't smoke nor drink have not had affairs. Never made a lot of money have always been good and done my responsibilities. Now when I see people having fun drinking going out having causal one night stands. Hurting people no remorse.. am i normal or stupid having been so good and honest...
Just day in and day out living like a animal....

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  • donteatstuffoffthesidewalk
    5 years ago

    all thangs in moderation includin moderation

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  • Cliche1234
    5 years ago

    Damn. You would make such a great friend. You're not a mindless animal like you think. Stop with that label. That's called living a healthy life.

    And affairs? Only dumbfucks will do that.

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  • Dangerine
    5 years ago

    If that's how you want to live your life, live it that way. It's ok to break the rules once and a while, but if you just want to be a good guy, then be a good guy. Believe me, the world needs more responsible people than the people you see around you.

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  • bigbudchonga
    5 years ago

    On the drinking and smoking side you seem to be missing out on a lot of the fun stuff in life. Why live to 85, sitting in you own shit in a nursing home with dementia, when you can die at 73 and have lived a life worth living, right? On the not hurting people side, you've done the right thing it's morally right not to fuck people over. I'm curious as to why you conflate not drinking and smoking as morally right though?

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  • SmokeEverything
    5 years ago

    How are drinking drugs and sex outside relationships hurting anyone? If you feel you've been wasting your life by doing what you're told and being "good and productive" my opinion would be that you're right. Being honest, not stealing, raping, etc is a good thing. You've just woken up to the fact that society is bullshit is all. Go out, fuck strangers, do drugs and make to stop short of where they'll kill you. You've awakened. You don't need money. And hey, you might have wasted some time but you're still alive. Go out and live how you want. We all die anyway.

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    • User007
      5 years ago

      @SmokeEverything
      All living creatures will die one day and even this earth is going to destroy one day! But we are here to make this world beautiful not ugly! Mind it!

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      • SmokeEverything
        5 years ago

        I don't understand what I said that gave you the impression that I wanted to make the world ugly. Smash the windows, so the trees can grow through them. If everyone burned down their house many pretty flowers would grow from the acres of ashes. Experience the beauty in the world, like drugs and depraved sexual encounters, sleeping outside like nature intended. Whoever told you the earth could be destroyed was a liar.

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  • McBean
    5 years ago

    If you want some excitement there's whitewater rafting, sky diving, scuba diving, or world travel. You need to think outside the box. Start planning, get an airplane ticket and go.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    There's nothing wrong with you.

    People who have affairs are really shitty deep down inside in their souls they are less than what I flush down the toilet after a hearty fibrous breakfast! People who hurt others with no remorse are sociopaths, sociopaths are evil, fucked up people who I hope eventually get what they deserve. Karma is a bitch, but that's why I love her!

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  • abrarhex
    5 years ago

    Thanks

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  • cipro
    5 years ago

    Broaden your horizons, Do some drugs!

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  • [Old Memory]
    5 years ago

    Sluts like me are probably the happiest people I know! I love what I do and have no regrets!

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  • Ellenna
    5 years ago

    A friend said something years ago which has stuck in my mind, that the vast majority of us are ordinary people leading ordinary lives.

    If you want your life to be more interesting there are ways to do it which don't involve drugs or affairs. Find a hobby or an interest or better still, a passion and go for it

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