Is an emotionally needy partner a deal breaker for you

Could you date somebody who followed your every step, tag you constantly on social media, cry about about their for 2 hours a night, text you persistently throughout the day, and wants your total attention 24/7?

Girls, could you date somebody like this?

Guys, could you date a girl like this?

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  • I think I’d rather be dead than stuck in a relationship with an excessively needy person.

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  • Why would I want to date someone like that?

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  • When a friend needed my attention 24/7, not only would I resent them for constantly taking away my "me time" and stressing me out, it would disgust me to the point where I eventually stopped giving a shit about them. Then I'd cut them out of my life, stop going over their house, block their phone number, block them on social media, and make sure they can't set foot on my property or my workplace. I can't stand people like this and I now try my best to avoid these types of people. I could never date someone like that. XD

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  • Depends. Sometimes people are like this because they've been treated badly and aren't getting what they need from a relationship. If you treat them well and show them you really care about them then all these problems go away.

    Sometimes they are just plain crazy though, and no amount of good loving will help. That would be a no from me

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  • I wouldn't mind someone relying one me. Isn't it kinda what relationship are for? I guess some people are needier than others but...

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  • Yes, definitely a deal-breaker. I wouldn't consider dating anyone that doesn't have their own life to lead...

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  • Im guessing you mean a girl, but damn, this would be a major turn on for me if it was a guy (as long as were compatible and he's not crazy / abusive) although it's pretty cute if you're meaning lesbian/bi woman too. I would never let a partner cry or feel lonely if I could help

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    • exactly!

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      • I'm surprised by how unpopular it seems to be from the comments. If it's someone I can get really emotionally close to, and they're not abusive or insanely obsessed, this is like the ideal relationship for me and I would be just as devoted to them in return. Anything less would feel boring and pointless.

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  • If it is that bad, then no. But I am far from a romantic.

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  • It depends on how hot and fun they are

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