Insecurities in a relationship?

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Is it normal to be insecure in a relationship? What reasons should make me so insecure? Is it that this is my first long term serious relationship? Or is it that I'm just scared to lose the guy? I argue and worry everyday when he goes places because I'm worried he'll flirt or leave me since it is also a long distance relationship. I worry and think that he'll find someone else. Can someone give advice how to stop being like this? (: Mahalo, Aloha.

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  • harrypotterdork22
    13 years ago

    okay 8serene8 if you say that, is it from experience? or uve seen relationships crumble.
    look, chichiku, if its meant to be, be patient and it can turn out to be wonderful. i truly think hes my soulmate and time and distance wont make me love him any less. never lose faith or hope, because thats all you have

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    • ChiChiku
      13 years ago

      :3 Ahh. Thank you soo much for your comments. They always cheer me up and stop me from worrying.

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  • goingcrazy
    11 years ago

    most guys cheat in a long distance relationship or atleast they will flirt.

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  • ForReal?
    12 years ago

    Stop arguing and worrying everyday when he goes places!! You are going to ruin your relationship because of your insecurities.. listen to yourself, you are getting mad at him for something you THINK he might do and he hasn’t even done anything! That sounds ridiculous if you look at it from his point of view… he’s going to say fuck this chick she’s always yelling at me for something I don’t even do.

    If your boyfriend ends up leaving you don’t let it be because of something you antagonized.. if he does something he does it, you have no control over his actions so stop worrying and just live life and spend more time being happy with him.

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  • harrypotterdork22
    13 years ago

    hehe anytime <3 remember youre the luckiest girl in the world

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  • blndgrl18
    13 years ago

    Ive never had a long distance relationship, but i do know what you mean about being insecure. I'm always thinking the worst. If my boyfriend goes out I worry that he's going to find someone else that he's more attracted to. If his behaviour changes in the slightest, I'm worried that it has something to do with me. Alot of times, its just insecurities with ourselves. At a certain age, most guys will only be in a relationship if they want to. There are no games. If it isn't what they want, believe me they will tell you. So stop worrying, be happy, have faith, and focus on the good things.

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  • 8Serene8
    13 years ago

    Agreed. Long distant relationships almost never work.

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  • harrypotterdork22
    13 years ago

    do not believe that person ^^^
    i am sooo in ur shoes. when u truly love someone, distance doesnt matter.
    i am insecure and think that hes with someone else, but i trust him and i know he loves me. so talk to him about it. if he truly loves u, hell reassure that ure the only one for him.
    good luck. hes worth it.

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    • ChiChiku
      13 years ago

      Thank you. (:

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  • TouchTheRoof
    13 years ago

    Stupid autocorrect on iPod it doesnt correct it makes mistakes instead.

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