Inn to never have an orgasm?

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I'm worried i'm never going to have an orgasm. During intercourse sometimes it feels okay and sometimes it hurts. My husband and I have tried many different positions but it never feel good. This has happened with all my past relationships and could have been a reason why some of them didn't work out, I'm scared it will ruin my marriage. With oral sex i have had an orgasm but it would take me 1-2 hours to get there and most of the time i would/will get frustrated and just tell him to stop. Which leads to me never wanting to have sex.

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  • Welshfaye
    6 years ago | pl

    I don't really orgasm. I have just got used to it. I enjoy sex without. That said I think you should speak to someone about it as it's clearly an issue for you and it's a think that can be helped with.

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  • kaymaree
    6 years ago | pl

    I would suggest spending some time to explore yourself, find what you like and learn to relax. it is something that can take some time and it's better to discover what you find pleasurable with yourself first. look up omgyes.com it has lots of tips, educational videos and many different methods. also if you aren't getting clitoral stimulation during intercourse, that could be why. I personally cannot orgasm from intercourse without clitoral stimulation. Could you try stimulating yourself while having sex? I find it is easy and very pleasurable to do this while in doggy style. good luck :)

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  • Keepsake
    6 years ago | pl

    Have you tried using some sex toys? It could help speed things up.

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  • Cookiecutter
    6 years ago | pl

    Not everyone orgasms its happens. Clearly its bothering you so talk to someone and your husband because he might not even care so dont get all worked up or worried over nothing.

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  • MR.mr
    6 years ago | pl

    See a shrink seriously this is probably an emotional/mental problem. Not saying there's anything wrong with you, it's just that maybe some emotional need or something along those lines you aren't aware of that you need,
    A few years ago I read about a woman who always had the hardest time climaxing, she said in her entire life until she was like 24 she only had 4 orgasms from sex (she was able to do it herself through masturbation). She said one time when she was with a guy he made her beg and take a submissive role during sex, she said she'd never done it before and didn't want to but she went along with it and had the most intense orgasm of her life, from then on she knew what she needed.
    Your need may not be the same as hers but the root of your problem may very well be a sexual need, you don't even know exists is going unsatisfied.

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