I do think you are normal to feel that way. I also think you are very tolerant.
You see most people would feel just as angry as you do by the situation. Some people would confront the rude behavior right away, but other people, who don't like confrontation, would hold it inside and avoid contact with the offensive person.
Personally, I am a confrontational sort of person. I'm sure that you have noticed this because I wanted to understand your post so much that I pestered you with so many questions. [Smile] I use to be like you, but I became so frustrated by feeling like a doormat, so I changed. Now I only trust my spouse, my family, and a handful of close friends. I never fully trust the motives of anyone else, but I am polite and friendly to everyone that I meet because it is not necessary for the whole world to know that I don't easily trust people.
I think that young people do tend to trust people more than people over the age of 25 (just a random guess) because they are still very naive about people's motives.
Again, I'm glad you explained yourself. You have a good point.
INN to be more cruel when alone then socialize with people?
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Thank you for explaining, I do appreciate it.
I do think you are normal to feel that way. I also think you are very tolerant.
You see most people would feel just as angry as you do by the situation. Some people would confront the rude behavior right away, but other people, who don't like confrontation, would hold it inside and avoid contact with the offensive person.
Personally, I am a confrontational sort of person. I'm sure that you have noticed this because I wanted to understand your post so much that I pestered you with so many questions. [Smile] I use to be like you, but I became so frustrated by feeling like a doormat, so I changed. Now I only trust my spouse, my family, and a handful of close friends. I never fully trust the motives of anyone else, but I am polite and friendly to everyone that I meet because it is not necessary for the whole world to know that I don't easily trust people.
I think that young people do tend to trust people more than people over the age of 25 (just a random guess) because they are still very naive about people's motives.
Again, I'm glad you explained yourself. You have a good point.